I have been with my husband for ten years and married for 5 years. In 2012, I noticed that he was spending a lot of time on his Playstation 3, especially after midnight…so I went on the Playstation one day while he was not home and noticed that he kept searching for the username razzle_bedazzle, Cali_Gaming_Girl, and Cali’s Finest, so I confronted him about it and of course all he did was deny deny deny, but my womanís intuition kicked in and I knew he was doing something behind my back. I then started noticing that if I walked into the gaming room unexpectedly then he would immediately exit out of whatever he was in and once I even caught him in the middle of messaging her but he quickly exited out. After that I started doing a little digging on my own and was able to find out her name, Alejandra Ramirez and that she lived in Hemet, California. I then got into his Facebook page and saw that he added her as a friend. When I confronted him about who she was he told me this long elaborate”story” saying that they had attended middle school together and that she used to protect him from bullies and that they grew up together. I knew he was lying so I messaged her from his Facebook pretending to be him and asked her if I knew her from somewhere. She immediately responded back saying,”What are you talking about we went to so and so school together.” Thatís when I realized that she knew he was married and she didn’t care. After I confronted him about it again he still held to his guns that they grew up together but he did delete her and deleted her off of his Playstation. Fast forward to April 16, 2014, and I was on the”family” iPad and he had forgot to log out of his Facebook, and a notification popped up so I looked at it and it was a message from this skanky bitch saying”did you tell you wife about us?””Does she know you have been cheating on her for almost 4 years with me?””If you don’t tell her I will!” When he got back from work I showed him the messages and he finally admitted that he had been cheating on me with her since 2012, but that it meant nothing…she was nothing to him and it was just a game and that he didn’t know how to get rid of her and that he had realized too late that she was an undercover psycho. || I wasn’t hearing any of it so I moved out, and unfortunately, I did move back in because I couldn’t break my kids hearts (BTW I adopted and raised his two daughters since they were toddlers (they are now teens) and treated them and loved them as my own after their birth mom abandoned them). We talked about it and he swore that he would never talk to her again. This time I actually believed him…he wasn’t on his Playstation as much and he had no problem playing with me in the room, we were getting along great and I actually thought we were happy! Then in October 2014, I started getting these messages on my Facebook and I could tell right away that they were fake profiles made just to message me. They would say things like I have proof that your hubby is cheating on you and the ugly bitch actually described my bed to me! She would say she had pictures and screenshots of their conversations and she was going to send them to me but she never did! My husband told me that he promised that he had not been talking to her at all that she was just a psycho jealous bitch who couldn’t move on…I believed him because his behavior was different from last time…he showered me with attention and love and couldn’t keep his hands off of me. || Then in April 2015, she actually grew a pair of balls and messaged me from her real Facebook profile stating that she and my husband had had a 4 year relationship that he told her that we slept in different bedrooms and were getting divorced. Then she sent me the pictures and screenshots, of him professing his love to her and he had even sent her some dick pics! Of course, the weak scared bitch only sent pics of what he said not what she said and unbeknownst to her I logged on the Playstation App under his information and pulled up the chat history and in the chats she basically begging him to divorce me and also disclosed that she has eating disorders both bulimia and anorexia and is also an alcoholic and addicted to Vicodin pills. Her daughter was also messaging him as well! Then on top of all that she had the audacity to message my daughter telling her that her daddy was going to divorce her mom because he had been cheating on me with her! How fucked in the brain do you have to be? You go after my child who is innocent in all this? || I have filed for divorce and have actually moved in to another place and finally I am moving on with my life. It was actually a relief. She did try to message me and I think that she thinks that my husband is the only bad guy in this scenario but the fact is that she is just as bad if not worse, because she knew he was married with kids and she didn’t care…pure trash and how pathetic and desperate do you have to be to take what doesn’t belong to you!