I met my husband during my junior year in college. He was my first serious boyfriend. I was several states away from my family and he was a local. By the time we graduated, I knew I would spend my life with him. 3 years later we were married and have since had two beautiful girls and a boy. No marriage is ever perfect but after 10 years I thought we were just lucky. || Following college we moved to my home state of Oklahoma. My brother in law was getting married in July of 2011. My husband flew home in June for his bachelor party and I stayed with the kids. We flew back for the wedding and that was that. My husband made several trips home since then for various reasons. I didn’t think anything of it. We decided to move to be closer to his mom when she showed signs of dementia. We moved three months ago and my world fell apart shortly after. || Here is what I know now… Like most bachelor parties, his brother’s included a strip club. I knew this at the time but I thought nothing of it. Come to find out, Alicia (he called her Hayden because it was her stage name) was a stripper at the club. She gave him her number and it all began. They slept together the first time the night before the wedding. I was out with the bachelorette and he took her to a hotel. He flew home a month later for a week and spent it with her. So for two years it happened every time he went home. || I wouldn’t have found out. He was very good at hiding it. I don’t know when he last saw her or how often. A year ago we started using condoms. We had planned for one more child but didn’t want to get pregnant until we settled here. Then I received a survey from a local clinic regarding his recent visit. When I asked he just said it was for a checkup. Ok…. Then I find the pills. Valtrex. When I confronted him he admitted the whole thing. Said he found a sore and that’s when he insisted we wait for another child. He had it checked and knew it was Hsv. I immediately went to the Dr for bloodwork. So far, I’m clean as a whistle. I guess he was looking out for me. || He has since moved into the guest room. We aren’t touching let alone having sex. I don’t know if I can move past this. I’ve talked with a Dr and know the risks of contracting it. Not only did he cheat for years but he also cheated with this trash. She is disgusting. She knew about the kids and I the whole time. She had a boyfriend when they met and has had several since. I believe he’s done with her but now he has an STD. What am I supposed to do? I love him with all my heart. I just hope my husband was the only one stupid enough to not use a condom with her. Ladies, watch out for her she could get your husband next.