I’ve been with my boyfriend on and off for the last 10 years. We have a 4yr old daughter together and were currently renting a two story house for the last year. This all started when one night at the beginning of October, my co worker called me saying she had the craziest thing to tell me about my boyfriend. She started telling me how this girl at her bible study group was talking about a man she was seeing that had the same name and age as my boyfriend, who had a daughter with the same name and age as our daughter. We decided to do a three-way call with this girl, Alyssa. She told me how she met my boyfriend on plenty of fish and how they had been seeing each other for a couple weeks now. She told me how she had been to my house. (She obviously thought nothing wrong of the woman’s clothing or products). Anyways I asked her to come over and she showed up 3 minutes later without me having to give her my address. The days she said she had been at my house were the times I was working to support this cheating jerk. Anyways we confronted my boyfriend and he refused to talk to her, so she left. || The next morning he denied having any idea who she was. Well I was sick of his lies and BS so I informed him I’m thinking of moving back home. He begged me to work on things so I decided to stay. I informed Alyssa that as long as I lived in the house with him and was with him that she needed to leave us alone and never come over again. Well 3 days later my boyfriend had a hockey tournament while I worked. He said his buddy brought him and our daughter home, but my daughter says a girl in a white car named Alyssa brought us home. So I flipped out on him. He came home begging me to not believe anything she says, that she is crazy and a stalker and that he wanted me to stay and work on things. He then started saying how he wanted to have another baby with me (thank god I didn’t go through with that). So a week later my boyfriend decides to take my daughter to his friends house to spend the night with him. The next morning I find a kids menu from a restaurant with her name on it. He denies it and says it was the waitress…BS. My daughter also said they hung out with a girl named Alyssa, and he claims our daughter is lying…jerk. Anyways so a weak later he decides to drop his daughter off with his mother while I’m at work so he can go party with his loser friend. He comes home the next day and yes I sniffed his shorts and they smelled like p**sy. He told me it was a bonfire…the idiot must think I’m naïve. I know what p**sy smells like. So I think start packing up my stuff to move back home with my parents I’ve had enough. I informed Alyssa that if I ever caught her at the house we were renting I would call the cops on her. So a couple days later my co worker comes to the house to talk to me about Alyssa bragging about the things she was doing with my boyfriend or should I say newly ex boyfriend. She was telling everyone how they have sex all the time and how she doesn’t care that she broke up a family and how she is gonna be my daughters new mom…over my dead body. She told my co worker how the night before when I was sitting on the couch watching tv, how she climbed in and outta the window of our bedroom to see my ex boyfriend. I wished to god I had caught her. || Anyways through all of this my ex boyfriend now, denies knowing Alyssa. So his phone starts ringing and I see the caller name as Alyssa so I grab the phone and start yelling at him and that’s when he just flips. The ending of the story is my ex boyfriend gets arrested for domestic assault and is ordered to stay away from the home we were renting and isn’t allowed to contact me per a OFP and no contact order. So as of right now my daughter and I are living at my mothers house and I’m done with my ex boyfriend. My original intention wasn’t to expose Alyssa but when I found out she knew about me and then she continued with my ex boyfriend I’d had enough. I plan on exposing my ex boyfriend but I’ll will wait till after his court appearances are done with.