So me and my husband have been together for 8years, married for 3 and have 3 kids together. It started back in 2014, he meet this stupid manipulative psycho at his work where she was the security guard. At first I didn’t pay no mind to their friendship but one day jus out of curiosity I went throw our cell phone bill and saw about 2500 text messages from his phone so I checked the number to see who it was and sure enough it was this bitch AMANDA ALPHONSO. It was late night so I woke him, slapping him and of course he denied everything. He then later admitted to trying to f*ck her but that she was always telling him it wasnt right and that she didnt wanna be the other women and that he was always clear about how he loves me and that he want going to leave me. || No she wasnt doing that to be nice, she was aiming to get him to leave me and his kids for her but it didnt work. I stayed because i just never want my kids to grow up going back and ford on the weekends and holidays and decided to try and work it out. Fast forward to oct 2014, we were just about to break up but i find out i was pregnant again so we decided to wait and see after the baby was born to see how we felt about the break up than. Yes i started keeping my eyes on him, i even connected one of his emails to my phone. I thought everything was going okay but than on the first week of August (one week ofter i gave birth to our son) i just decided to go thru all my emails and of course his too, not thinking anything of it. Than i see an email from the homewrecker saying”i need to talk to you, i went to the doctors I’m scared”” i am texting you to every email you gave me , please talk to me” . I confronted him about it, and he said she was just trying to talk to him because of all her problems and that she was suicidal” because he is the only one that she’s trusted with her secrets, bout being Sexually molested as a kid (another reason why i had sympathy for her and tried not to post her face on here) but she just kept asking for it. So i just believed him, i guess i just didnt want to deal with it than. But then going thru his phone again, i come to find out a secret email he had so since his phone was the”password reset back up” i reseted the password and logged in. Now this is where i find out what has really being going on for the past 2years. Here i find out that they have been seeing each other , that during this whole time she has been pregnant and aborted THREE times, the last time she was pregnant, it was right before i found out i was pregnant with my son and that she was mad when we found out it was a boy”because she was suppose to give him his boy”. I’ve called her to confront her but she never answer my call or text because”she doesnt want any drama” like”bitch YOU ARE DRAMA” . He says she hates me because i have her life,are u fucken serious? || He is always telling me he loves me but really!!? She need to be exposed. She lives in Montalvin CA, but works in San Francisco may be looking for a new married man and make him feel sorry for her and her past. SHE IS STILL A SECURITY GUARD, so if you’ve seen her working near your husband beware ladies!!