My husband is by no means innocent in any of this. However, here is my story. || Amanda met my husband (he was my boyfriend of 4 years at the time and we have 2 children together) through work. She was in a training class and was sat near him for mentoring (they work in a call center). It started off innocently and he told me about her. I befriended her on Facebook and we spoke a few times about my husband and their job. When they met, he had just come clean to me about cheating on me briefly with another co-worker of his. We were going through very serious issues at the time and I forgave him for it. Amanda was aware of the cheating situation and she promised me that this would not be like that and she was only his friend. || Fast forward New Years Eve. My husband (bf then) proceeded to tell me that he was attracted to Amanda and that they had kissed a few times. He said he wasn’t sure if we should be together but we still decided to work on our problems. He ended it with her in February and we started off fresh again. || Almost a year passes and itís the end of 2010. I found out they had started their relationship back up 2 months after supposedly ending it. It started with her talking to him again. It was always her approaching him, and I know this because he is not that type of person. He doesn’t need to reach for attention, it comes to him.† I confronted him again (even though I’d had suspicions all year). He’d always denied speaking to her seeing her, everything. It was all a lie again. || This girl called me names, said I was psycho, called my home, tried to get my husband to bring my children around her, and so on and so forth. He clearly had no intention of ever leaving me, she just gave him money all the time and paid for his lunches and oil changes, etc. Anything he needed, she’d willingly give and when we were a family of 4 struggling, it seemed like an answer to him. || While she thought they had some sort of ‘RELATIONSHIP it was nothing more than the occasional lunch break together or one night every other weekend that they would spend. He never stayed the night, never went on dates. The amount of contact was minimal, but enough to cheat. || Then it took a turn for the worse. In the summer of 2011, he got her pregnant. She had told him from the beginning that she was on birth control and this couldn’t happen. I found out because she called and told me and he cried and begged me to not leave him because he had made the biggest mistake of his entire life. He did not want another child and he did not want to be stuck with her forever. He asked me to marry him finally and we would leave all this pain behind us for good because marrying me would prove to her once and for all that he wouldn’t leave. She even called the day of the wedding trying to get him to leave me. She even said she KNEW HE LOVED ME but that he told her that too (only to get more money from her). || She called after the wedding and left a message threatening to get a court order to keep mr and him away from his child. Her mother even called and threatened the same thing and called me a psychotic bitch. After all this, I thought for sure there could be no going back to her. || In Feb. 2012, the child was born. My husband said he did not want to see him, did not want to talk to her, and so on. That was a lie. He went to the hospital and saw him at least every other week on his lunch break for 30 minutes. All because Amanda said I was not allowed to see the child. || His name is not on the birth certificate. She has never asked for a DNA test or support. I honestly want nothing to do with this child because he has more support and love from family than my own children have. I do not want to take away what little they have all because a stupid homewrecker couldn’t keep her legs shut! || It is now 2013 and my husband left that job. It took him a year, but he finally got away. We also moved houses, but now she is contacting him again, through text. I also found an old phone she had given him to secretly contact her and it had tons of recent messages from her from March, none of which he had responded to. In them, she would send pictures of the baby, herself, call me a cunt and a piece of shit. || Amanda Cobb is by far the worst of the worst. She doesn’t care about anyone but herself. She is willing to break apart a family, tear apart two children’s parents, and hold her own child hostage all for her own selfish reasons. She is a liar (has lied to me, my husband, her mother, my mother, everyone I know.) || I destroyed the old cell phone, I blocked her number. I’ve done everything short of a protective order (which I can’t get because I do not know her address). I refuse to call and try to talk to her because she cannot be talked to. She is absolutely insane and psychotic and needs her ass beat. || As I said, I know my husband is not innocent in this at all. I know he has done me more wrong than any person should deserve. However, we’ve known each other for 12 years, been together for 9. Our kids do not have a lot of close family, just us, so all they know is their mommy and daddy together. Sure we have our arguments, but kids know nothing but love. They are the most loving children. We give kisses and hugs; go on vacations, outings, trips, family pictures. Other than cheating, my husband has treated me better than any person I’ve ever known. If you didn’t know our story (and very few do) you’d never imagine he could ever cheat on me (let alone with a girl who is 150 lbs heavier than me at that). || He adores me and I adore him. || I know that if she would disappear from the picture, we could move on with our lives, but she just WON’T GO AWAY!