Oh where do I begin….Well on May 16th I had grabbed my husband of 5 years phone to take some pictures of our 3 yr old son. Not thinking anything of it I slipped the phone in my pocket and we continued to play. About an hour or two later I remembered that I had his phone in my pocket and had this uneasy feeling so I checked his phone. Hidden away in a”game” folder was a secret Google email and what do I see? Amanda and my husbands emails back and forth. They were texting while I was in the same room with him. (They were talking on the phone and masturbating on my birthday May 4th while I was working because”we didn’t have any plans or funds” even thought he was sending her flowers on her birthday two weeks before.) I about threw up in the floor. I was reading these messages and he comes in realizing that I still had his phone and flipped out. I asked him who she was and he wasn’t real happy to know that I found out his little secret. After he admitted what he had been doing for two and a half months and trying to delete as many messages as he could before I could get them saved to my business email, I decided I would contact her. I texted and called and texted and called. It wasn’t until after I threatened to come to her work and/or house in Houston, we live in Dallas, that she finally responded. || Let me give you a little back story as to when this little affair started. My dad was terminally ill and had been living with us since Nov. 28th of last year and I was his sole caretaker. He passed away from cancer, in my home, on March 15th. On March 3rd out of the blue my 16 yr old daughter broken down and attempted suicide. She was admitted to the hospital for 7 days. Sometime in the week between my daughters suicide attempt and my dads passing these two thought it would be a great idea to start a relationship. I also found out that she was a previous girlfriend and co-worker of his. The emails back and forth were filled with”I love you’s” and”I miss you’s” They were calling each other at work all the time, sexting, face timing, masturbating together over the phone, you know all the typical things that two cheating whores do. My home wrecker happened to also have a new baby and a marriage that is still not two years old. Are you freaking kidding me!? My whore, yes my husband, said that Amanda had admitted that she wanted my life and what I had with him. Her husband had know for a month and did nothing about it. They had planned and paid for a”work trip” to see one another in Atlanta this past July and spend the weekend together, they had a count down to the day. || When she finally did text me back she admitted to loving him and being in love with him, MY HUSBAND! She knew that he was married and had been stalking him on LinkedIn. She had the nerve to tell me to stop”blowing up” her phone. I’m sorry, she lost the right to tell me what to do when she decided to involve herself in my marriage and family. The day I found out happened to be the day before she had planned on driving from Houston to Dallas to have lunch with him and spend the day with him, all while I assumed he was working late. How does a woman who knows a man is married live with herself after destroying a family!?