This woman and my husband were friends before we met, because of their children. He felt bad for her when her husband left her and they became friends somewhat. Her husband came back and they kind of lost touch. I’m not sure why she took her husband back since she claimed he was mean and abusive. || Somehow along the way, they started talking again after we were married. One day, I get a phone call from her husband saying “My wife and your husband are having an affair”. I told him no way, my husband loved me, we were happy, he’d never do that. My husband always seemed pretty honest with me. Plus, I’d seen her and she had yellow teeth and acne scars all over her face. I didn’t think my husband would be willing to lose me over her. This man spent weeks trying to convince me they were sleeping together. I eventually called her and straight up asked her. She denied it and said her husband was just crazy and jealous and treated her bad. || Eventually, I hacked into my husband’s email and found out that they had slept together. The emails were basically her telling him that she loved him, and how crappy a wife I was. My husband was going through a very emotional time dealing with some personal problems and she used his vulnerability. My husband tried to end it, because he knew it had been a mistake, but I read the emails where she threatened to expose what had happened if he didn’t leave me. She was desperate and psycho and was trying to use my husband to get out of her own marriage. Obviously she wasn’t worried about ruining mine. || This doesn’t in any way excuse my husband’s behavior. He has paid dearly for what he did. I made sure of it. But how can a woman whose been cheated on, do that to another woman. On the one hand, it sucks, but it was kind of like hitting rock bottom for my husband and he has sought help for his alcohol abuse and for dealing with his emotional problems. He is almost like a different man. Our marriage is slowly healing but she will forever be an ugly whore.