My husband and I have been married now for over 6 years and have 3 children. 2 years ago he confessed to an affair with Amy Hogan, an office slut he used to work with. She knew we were married, he had a huge canvas in his office of our family portrait among many other pictures of me and our kids, I visited him at work, she even followed me on Facebook and joined my home-based business! She KNEW. She stuck herself right, smack in the middle of our marriage, right under my nose. She tried buying him too – bought him a snowblower, which I gave away, an XBox, which I broke, and who knows what else I don’t know about still. She got my husband fired from his job when he told her it was over, and since I was a contractor for the company, I lost my job on the same day. She also attempted to befriend a good friend of mine.At one point she sent us an email that went a little like this:”Hope u two have a good life together, don’t forget I’m the one who made your first house payment. I’m the one that helped you get your car fixed. I’m the one that bought that XBox. I’m the one that bought that snowblower. I’m the one that borrowed you money when you needed something. I’m the one that paid for your windows to get tinted in your car…..” I honestly could not stop laughing. Our first house payment?? We rent, and I paid it out of my own checking account. Helped fix our car? Bullshit. We pay monthly payments on a loan we had to take out for that. XBox? Smashed on my patio. Snowblower? Gave to a needy family. Window tint? Slashed.She waited until she was 7 months pregnant to tell him, claimed she’d just found out. ( I call bullshit) She’s been accused of poking holes in condoms. She’s done everything in her bat-shit crazy power to trap my husband. Unfortunately for her, he promised his life to ME. We’ve managed to keep our family together, I refuse to give up on my marriage. We now have thousands of dollars in therapy and other doctor bills caused by this. I have been battling major depression and extreme anxiety. Now we’re paying child support that we can’t afford, for a kid she waited over a year to prove was his, (we’d been told she’d been with 2 other guys around the same time as him), and demanded back support that has now made it impossible for us to buy a home for our family after we’ve worked for 8 years to pay off debts so we could. I’ve given this whore every opportunity to tell me her side of the story, which she’s completely ignored. I have no choice than to believe everything my husband has told me about her. That she’s insane, she’s a slut, she’s a liar, she’s immature…..and now, she’s a thief. She has stolen everything from me and my kids. She’s destroyed my marriage – staying with my husband and working through this has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life, but we have kids and they deserve it. She stole a piece of my husband that is in all ways sacredly mine,(REMOVED). She stole our family’s financial security. And now she’s stealing food from my children’s mouths, clothes off their backs, and opportunities from their hands.Watch out, Minnesota men, because Amy Hogan is the devil. She cares about nothing but herself, she comes from a white trash family straight out of Walmart, and she’s not even worth it. She’s HORRIBLE in bed and gives the world’s worst blow job….so I hear. || A note to Amy: Checkmate, Bitch!! I hope you have a happy life. Don’t forget, I’M the one he swore his life to. MY kids are the ones being punished because you have no morals and can’t find a life of your own. Don’t be surprised when that Karma Bus comes around, it hits 1000 times harder than you can…..and it will.