Their affair started sometime around June 2013. I found out about it on Friday December 13, 2013! My husband, her husband, and myself all work together and became acquainted through work and have sons close in age. We invited her husband and her over to our house on several occasions, and I guess that was their go ahead to begin their affair. They pushed our kids together forging a friendship between them, we took their kid to the zoo, had him over to play on several occasions, our son would ride the bus to their house if we had to work late. || I began thinking there was something going on with him, but didn’t know who it was with, so I started trying to figure it out in November, he had put a lock on his phone so I couldn’t access anything on it, on Friday 12/13/13, I had to leave work early and his phone was in my car, I tried to guess the password, no luck, I shook the phone and threw it, and that is when her messages popped up on the phone!! I love you! I can’t wait to be with you again! It was no surprise as he had pull this shit before!! || We are once again in counseling, her husband doesn’t believe they ever had an affair!!!! Hard to explain why I am still here but I am! She is a fucking whore and he is a total douche bag and I’m a dumbass for staying!!!!