Andrea Martinez California California

I’ve been with my husband for about 4 and half years, my husband and I met in 2008 in high school, we got married in 2011. After we got married, a month later we found out I was pregnant and I soon made plans to go home with our family to Texas to have our daughter (we lived in California at the time). As I finished senior year, I moved to Texas with my parents to wait for my daughter to be born, my husband stayed in California because he’s in the military and couldn’t move with me. || To clear some things up, I wanted to move in with my parents because I had no family in California and I wanted to be surrounded by my family when she was born. || So during the time I was waiting my husband and I kept in good contact, called every morning, afternoon and before we went to bed (we even fell asleep on the phone), he’d come and visit, came for my baby shower and even for the birth of our daughter. || After our daughter was born he took about a month off of work to

I’ve been with my husband for about 4 and half years, my husband and I met in 2008 in high school, we got married in 2011. After we got married, a month later we found out I was pregnant and I soon made plans to go home with our family to Texas to have our daughter (we lived in California at the time). As I finished senior year, I moved to Texas with my parents to wait for my daughter to be born, my husband stayed in California because he’s in the military and couldn’t move with me. || To clear some things up, I wanted to move in with my parents because I had no family in California and I wanted to be surrounded by my family when she was born. || So during the time I was waiting my husband and I kept in good contact, called every morning, afternoon and before we went to bed (we even fell asleep on the phone), he’d come and visit, came for my baby shower and even for the birth of our daughter. || After our daughter was born he took about a month off of work to stay with me and about going back to California when we started talking about our lease for our apartment almost ending and having to find a new place to live because he didn’t want to renew the lease. So we came to the conclusion that till March of 2012 (which was about 6 months away) I’d stay with my parents and he’d find a new place and move everything so we didn’t have to worry about moving things with the baby around. I, at the time thought it was a GREAT idea because I was 18 when I had my daughter and I wanted to have my mom around to help me when I needed help not knowing what to do for the first few months. || Up until February when our lease was almost over he was able to find a condo to lease, I began asking him when he was going to buy our tickets to go back to California, hesitating he always said”Soon.”. March and April went by and NOTHING, I was still living at my parent’s. By May he started to ask me to go see him but at the time I couldn’t, I was busy planning my sister’s 15th birthday and my mom was busy working more hours to pay for things. I apologized and I told him after her birthday (which he was coming to) I’d be able to go back with him. He agreed and that’s when everything went downhill. || It went from text messages every minute to text messages every two hours. I literally had to text him a hundred times one after another for him to reply. Phone calls went the same; I would call him and nothing. I could get a bad feeling at the pit of my stomach. We’re females. We feel and know when something is wrong and 99.999% of the time we are RIGHT!! When I’d hear from him he assured me everything was okay, that I was moving with him soon and he got a place for our family. || So I just kept trying because I didn’t want to lose my marriage, but kept getting the same response. He started calling and texting about two/three days before he was supposed to fly in for my sister’s birthday. I went and picked him up and headed to my mother-in-law’s where we were going to stay. Everything seemed fine after that, we were talking, hugging, kissing, and well yah know making love, but one morning when we were trying to get busy we got a phone call at 6 AM! CALIFORNIA TIME from….. the homewrecker… named…. Andrea. That was the first time I’d seen that name popped up on his phone, I answered and she hung up… he grabbed the phone and said she was just a friend. I gave him the benefit of the doubt and walked away. || Two days later, the day he was leaving to go back to California he was passed out hung over and I decided to do what any woman would do….I reached my hand into his pocket and took his phone, memorizing his password for days, because he’d NEVER let me have it, I unlocked it. I went straight to the text messages… (Isn’t it weird that I’m getting the same feeling I got then while discovering all the texts?) There is was under ANDREA, I opened up, I felt my heart beating so fast I thought it was going to explode! I ran to my mother-in-law’s room and sat read about 10 of them because I couldn’t take it anymore… the ones I could barely remember are disgusting, talking about”blue balls and blue vaginas” || I couldn’t believe it, I told my mother-in-law, and she shook her head, I ran upstairs were I was standing across from him in his room ready to knock him out. I kicked him on his side screamed”WAKE THE FUCK UP!” he looked up at me confused… He asked what was wrong my reply? …well to tell you the truth, I can’t even remember… the next thing though I remember clearly…I threw his phone and knocked his tooth loose. He jumped up screaming telling me I was crazy!! I felt bad for what I had done and I as his wife went over to check on him and when I realized what I was doing I stepped back and said”NO!!! THAT’S WHAT YOU DESERVE FOR WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO ME!!! FOR CHEATING ON ME!! HOW COULD YOU?!!!” || I ran back downstairs give her a call. My heart pounding, she answered, I barely could get out a hello. She replied and seemed confused to why she heard a female voice coming from his phone number and I asked her if they were together and she clearly asked if I was his wife. I then realized she knew about me. I was confused to how she had the NERVE to ask if I was his wife, I answered and said,”Yes, I’m his wife, the mother of his daughter! Just so you know I’ll drop him off at the airport and you can pick up his sorry ass with a missing tooth” I hung up. || Right as I hung up he was coming down the stairs screaming to his mom how I knocked out his tooth and to help him take care of it, she said”I’m sorry I’m busy on the phone right now… you’re grown to make the choices you’ve made, you’re grown to take care of it” || My brother-in-law told him he’d take him to the ER and they left. I began texting the girl asking her question on how she could be with him knowing he was married… She claimed that he told her we were separated and that we were getting a divorce. I let her know that no divorce has EVER been filed and that as far as I was concerned about my marriage, we were still together. || She said she was sorry and she didn’t know but she was still going to pick him up at the airport. I felt sick and disappointed that a FEMALE would show so much disrespect. My mother-in-law saw the text and started texting her saying that her son came to Texas as if everything was okay, that his marriage was good, kissing me and grabbing me in front of all his family. And as far as she knew everything was okay between us and now that she was out of the dark she knew the truth and for her to go and still be with him was wrong of her. || We stopped texting her and went to go meet up with my husband to have lunch before he went back to Cali, I though didn’t want to go but my daughter had to see her father before he left. We then dropped him off at the airport, I waved good bye and he asked for a hug so I gave in and gave him one and he whispered”I love you, call you when I land” || And this ladies, was the last time I had heard from him that day… I kept track of his airplane till it LANDED, called and called and nothing once again. I got my brother-in-law to call Andrea’s phone and ask if his brother was there and …. what do you know he was with her…at OUR condo! || I couldn’t believe it. The next couple of days consisted of calling her, asking her how she could do that… lie in some other female’s bed, stay in her home, and be with her HUSBAND? she said,”He hid my keys and he wouldn’t let me leave…” || She’d go back and forth saying that she won’t talk to him and leave him but she continued to go over to the condo and be with him. But I knew in my gut, he’d be back asking for something, asking for me to forgive him… and of course he did. He apologized and repeatedly said it was a mistake and she was nothing but a whore. And when the time came that I couldn’t get a hold of him I knew who to call and would find him there with Andrea. || I gave up and just decided to move on and I told him that the last time I tried to give him Karma myself we ended up arguing for days. So I let him be, and on July 3rd 2012, he called asking me to please take our daughter to go see him for 4th of July. I agreed to take her, I packed my things and hers, and to be completely honest, I thought”This is it, my family will be whole once again!” I flew in on the 4th, spent the week going out to eat and going to sea world. But it all came crashing when he came home from work saying he was being called out to Germany for some deployment stuff and I had to go because he had to start packing up the condo and getting out. I was confused and didn’t know what to do and at the same time I told myself,”BULLSHIT! He obviously doesn’t want me here, why am I going to continue to beg for his attention?” I got my stuff together and was gone the next day back to Texas, || Before I knew it, of course it was all a lie, he had her back in his condo right after he dropped me off. Excuse me, US, OUR daughter and I. What wasn’t a lie was that he was getting deployed but not that soon! || All I asked after that was some respect for, Me, my daughter, our marriage, and our family, to wait till our divorce was finalized and they can continue their relationship, but no… they stayed together. || If I couldn’t be respected by my husband to do a single thing for me, I decided to move on myself, and do what I wanted to do so I went out with my brother-in-law to parties and tried to keep myself busy, got a job and focused on my daughter. || My daughter’s first birthday was coming up and I needed him to pitch in for things and at times he’d refuse to so I gave up on him and I instead got help from my families (my parents and my inlaws). By the time her birthday party date was set, he found out he was leaving a day after her actual birthday and wouldn’t be able to make it to the party so he wanted to come in August, but he wanted to bring the nasty ass whore to come meet MYYYYYYY in-laws! My in-laws refused to have her come to their home while their son was still married to someone else he gave up on bringing her to Texas. He said that she didn’t”TRUST” HIM to come alone to see HIS FAMILY…. GO FIGURE? Right? || Anyways, let me wrap all this up, he came to visit, couldn’t even have a DECENT conversation with me, fought me for my phone, and didn’t even want to look my way while trying to argue with me for my phone! He’d gone back to California when I learned that she didn’t even know I had gone for 4th of July, I was quick to let her know and she seem so surprised that she thought to get back at me she’d tell me she was pregnant. I of course felt sad but sad for her. She turned out not to be pregnant though. || My husband left for deployment September 18th, 2012. After he left on bad terms with me I felt sad because I didn’t want us the way we were, I loved him very much and hoped nothing went wrong while on his deployment. || I, in the states, continued to argue with the stupid girl on immoral it was for her to be with a married man and she argued about how he didn’t love me and he love her. But soon two month into his deployment he called me to talk and we started to work things out, he stopped his communication with her and no longer called her, I knew this was true because Andrea’s cousin messaged me on Facebook to let me know that rest assure that my husband would leave me to be with her cousin, Andrea. || Blocking every single one of them, I wanted them out of my life. || My husband returned safe back home this past April 2013. We had lots to talk about my things that I had done while he was doing his, it has been a bit rocky but he’s still here, and so am I. || I’ve moved back to California since May. We recently been approved for a home and my daughter now knows us as Mommy and Daddy. Though when he first got back Andrea tried contacting him, I know for a fact she’s blocked from our lives. Now though Andrea didn’t wreck everything I have. She tried. But this is all for me, to put an end to my past. I, will no longer let you, Andrea Martinez, control my life, my marriage, and my happiness. || You didn’t take away my husband from me or my family; you gave me strength to forgive my husband to fight for my family. I feel sorry for you. I pity you, you have not found someone to love or be loved…. your family isn’t together, you aren’t with the father of YOUR daughter, and you had to come and try to destroy mine. He has blocked you from trying to ever contacting him. So today, you no longer exist in my past, or my present and sure as hell NOT my future. || OH, and btw, thank you for keying our car, Karma’s a bitch. and I wouldn’t doubt it’ll destroy your most treasured relationship. Although I wish you’d rot to death or get ran over by a bus, looking like a nasty old tranny is good enough for now. Okay I’m done! Oh and if only I had saved the nasty pictures of her saggy butt now that would be some humiliation,  but I don’t want those on the hubby’s computer !! || >

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