I began working a new job after my husband and I sold our home and we then moved 20 minutes north into a very nice area of town. My job was 5 minutes from home. My husband worked from home. About 6 months into my job, April befriended me. We got along well and became very good friends. We were invited to a coworkers wedding and Iím pretty sure this is when my life began to be stolen from me. || Me and my ex-husband invited this Skank and her fiancť back to our place to hang out and shoot pool. We all seemed to get along well so we invited them over regularly for cards, pool; we went out bowling, to dinner, etc. Hell we even paid many times! I started to notice my Ex googly eyeing her. Iíd call him out on it and he swore I was being insecure! Well hell yes I was! So Skank and her fiancť ran into hard times about 6 months after the wedding. They needed a place to crash for a couple of weeks. We had an unused finished basement and being the person I am after talking it over with my ex offered them a place to crash for a couple weeks. Weeks turned into 6 months. Near the 5 month mark I started getting a gut feeling. I never had proof of anything but I somehow knew, even though I didnít know. I went home for Thanksgiving alone. I expressed some things to family and they implied that Chris wouldn’t cheat on me. He loves me too much to ever risk losing me. I always felt that way too but something still didnít feel right. My family urged me for weeks to kick them out but I just felt bad booting them out….Iím still not sure why. || About 1 week after Thanksgiving I was forced from my bed by some unknown force loudly telling me to”GET HER OUT” I heard this voice twice and I honestly still do not know where it came from but I went to the garage and proceeded to tell them to go and go now. She and her fiancť left that night. I confronted my ex and he swore nothing ever happened. The next night her fiancť came to gather their stuff. She sat outside and her fiancť asked me if I really thought something had gone on between them and I told him I absolutely did I just had no proof. Now mind you I still had to work with this hoe…side by side practically. I at this point wasnít sure what I was going to do but about 4 weeks after all this, my ex out of nowhere says Heather do you really think I did anything with”her” to which I replied I absolutely do. He the states”Nothing ever happened between them” So to myself I think, I love this man and if he is bringing this up after its boiled down then he must want to ease my mind. I had pretty much always given him 100 percent blind trust. So I let it go. Mind you itís now February 2011. || By May I had decided to not hold a grudge. If I believed my husband that nothing had happened then I should not be so cold to her. I would never ever be close to her or tell her anything like I had before but I was casually nice but it soon felt weird.† She seemed to be trying hard to be good friends again but my guard was still up. Way up but I did agree to dinner with the 4 of us. When I asked my ex about it he said”canít we find better friends” I laughed and said they were not under ANY circumstances welcome back to our home. He agreed we had dinner and we went our separate ways. I just kept getting this gnawing in my gut. Every time I talked to her I felt I was being stabbed in the back. So I prayed that god please let me know! Saturday we had all went to dinner. Sunday I prayed and Monday the good lord provided my answers. I came home from work, pulled into my garage and my husbands phone lay on a table near RC cars he had been fixing. Now mind you, my husbandís phone and computer are supplied by his job…I had no access at all really. Not until that day anyway. I had been trying to text him but he didnít respond. I grabbed his phone to take it in with me as I did I hit the button that then popped up his screen which had a Text from April…..so I read it! I canít remember every detail but these two sentences are still clear as day my ex says”wishing I was tapping that ass” the skanks reply”missing it huh”? I had my answers! I literally didnít sleep for two days! Went to work, stewed it for 3 nights and finally come Thursday night I confronted him. He did confess a small amount…finally I wasnít crazy! I quit my job the next day and left 2 days later 3 days before July 1st. I want to add that this skank was messing with a man who worked with us and he had a family at home. I never condoned this and would tell her it wasnít right. And while people ask why I let her around my husband. …I will still tell you it was because I trusted my husband with everything I was. I truly did! || So come to find out she wanted my life. She was extremely jealous of the love and affection my ex gave me. He spoiled me with gifts and she wanted it. Guess what? She now lives in my old house with my ex and my dog. I sure miss my dog!