I’ve been married to my husband for over a decade, we got married pretty young. We have two children (with one turning a teenager soon) together. Overall, the marriage has been great (we have our ups and downs like everyone else)until he started using work and furthering his career as reasons to why family time and us time is constantly shortened. At times I understood and accepted that. My intuitions have been talking to me more and more over the few months, which led me to start questioning him about our relationship. I’ve also followed him and received anonymous messages letting me know that he was having and still having an affair with an ex-co worker. Not once did he come clean. I did a lot of thinking before approaching him. I’m still doing a lot of thinking now, how could he have been so disloyal, throw so many years away and break our covenant. I have been completely faithful to this man for over 13yrs and have told him for so long that I do not want the lack of communication to cause us to grow apart. All I ever asked for in return was love, loyalty, faithfulness, honesty and communication. Lord behold! No one could have ever convinced me that my husband, the one who my entire world revolves around would do the things that I’ve been experiencing with him and anyone who truly knows me can confirm that. || As far as the homewrecker Ashley Chamblee, I haven’t had much contact with her because she chose to block me on Facebook. The time that I did reach out and got a response from her she tried to play this little psychology game by saying if she were me she’ll hate her too, how he’s the one who pursued her and that she loves him. I mean itís like she’s the innocent party/victim. I did let the whore know that my issue with her is that she has known about me and my family the entire time that she’s been involved with him, so she’s just as guilty. She was in control, but chose to take things (the relationship) to every level that they did knowing that he and I were together. True women (like myself) and men would have corrected the individual when approached in that manner, but I see that unfortunately, not many of us still exist. I also let her know that they will not prosper. God’s plans may not happen on my time, but they will on his time and they both will answer for all they have done for he see all and knows all. She doesn’t want things to work out between my husband and me because she wants him to give her the opportunity for them to be together. She obviously lacks wisdom, self-esteem, does not understand the definition of a real woman and very immoral. || Even though, my faith is constantly being tested, I will continue to keep it knowing that my God is Greater than ALL. What is for me will be for me.