So I have been with my boyfriend off and on for the last nine years, we have been through a lot. We have two beautiful girls together a one month old and a four year old. || My boyfriend I guess had postpartum depression instead of me after my second daughter was born. He didn’t have sex with her, but he did fall for her but she told him it was all in his head which I don’t think it was. I think she was just trying to save her own ass and say that to me. Anyway, they got really close to the point they were living under the same roof as me and our daughters only because I trusted him when he said they were only friends, so I was okay with it. But then it was the little things they did that I caught on to like they would always text each other while in the same room together with me, they would both go for walks together late at night while the girls and I were sleeping and always go for smokes together and sit in the dark watching movies together. || When I caught on to all of this I brought it up to him and he tried to lie about everything until he realized that he was going to lose the girls and me for good. I had all of our stuff packed and almost moved out but then realized why should I go, she should! So I kicked her ass out, drugs and all and made him go and get tested because the bitch has herpes and never told us. I made him change his number and I deleted hers out of his phone and he isn’t allowed to go anywhere unless I know where and with who. Am I wrong to give him another chance or should I have kicked his ass out to right along with hers?