My story starts on my 10th wedding anniversary! We planned a vow renewal ceremony and party. This home-wrecker was a “friend” of my husband’s and was invited. She had just flown in the day of the party. We had an open bar, and she got really drunk really fast. We diced to get a hotel room downtown so that we could party all night, then walk to the hotel instead of driving home. Well, my feet started to hurt so I didn’t want to walk back up the hill to bring her purse, so my husband took it up to her. Long story short, I was left outside the hotel in the cold for almost an hour waiting for him!! They were fucking. || The next thing was when we moved due to his military orders. Just so happened we were moving to the same area where she lives. At this point I still had no idea that they had done anything. She was trying to be my friend, was sweet to my kids, and all around being nice. I felt something was up when he started choosing to do things with her over spending time with me. I kept telling him that I felt like he was choosing their friendship over our marriage. I started feeling like she was being cold toward me, and he told me that she cried on night because she thought she heard us having sex. He is MY husband!! I’m allowed to fuck him if I want too! This raised all kinds of red flags. We fought; I broke a lot of her things, and kicked her to the curb. All this time I still didn’t know they were fucking. 2 week later I get an e-mail from her “apologizing” for what she has done to me. || So, I confronted my husband. He admitted it. They fucked in the hotels when we were house hunting during the move! They fucked in MY van!! The fucked at the playground that I can see from my driveway! The same playground that he wanted to take our kids too! And they fucked in my HOUSE!! My living room and my guest room. || I am so broken and betrayed. She was supposed to be a friend, someone that he could talk to about things. But instead she was keeping notes about all the negative. She twisted it all and feed it right back to him, brainwashing him into believing he was miserable with me. She was telling him all the time how “if he were her husband, she’d have dinner ready when he got home, she’d hand him a beer, she’d rub his feet, she’d fuck him every night, she’d take better care of our kids, etc.” He started believing it. It wasn’t until I packed up the kids and left him that he realized that it was all lies. That he loved me, was happy with me, and didn’t want to lose me. He turned on her and came back to me. He didn’t want me to know anything because he wanted to protect me, but the guilt did eat at him. So to get back at him, she told me. || This bitch is a true home-wrecker in every sense of the word. She was trying to steal my husband, AND my kids! She wanted my LIFE! She wanted to kick me to the curb, broken and emotionally battered, and take my spot as his wife and my kid’s mom. || And it still isn’t over. She just can’t let things die. She kept calling and texting and e-mailing him. And recently she has claimed that she is pregnant! I told him that he better not send her a dime for the “abortion” she is claiming she wants. We don’t believe she really is pregnant because of a lot of details I left out, but if she is pregnant and doesn’t get an abortion, one of 2 things is going to happen. Either we are going to fight to take custody away from her, and she will never see the baby, or he will sign over ALL rights and not be responsible for anything. He won’t’ see the baby, or pay a dime for it. || We changed our phone numbers and blocked her from our e-mails. There is only on e-mail address that she could still contact him through, and that’s his work e-mail. Even then, he just ignores her, and deletes anything he gets without reading it.