My husband and I have been married for 4 years and have been together 11 years. We had a rough 2yrs with him losing his job and me 5 months pregnant and working to support us and our 2 boys. Then last year he got yet another dui. Now he is the type when he messes up he makes you feel guilty for being upset. || Well anyway, May of this year he starts up again with this homewrecking whore. I found out when I got the cell phone bill and saw he would talk and text her for hours, then call me, and then call her right back. Well one weekend he goes out with his friend Chris and it turns out he was with her! That was a Saturday. That Monday he sits and says I’m leaving to be with Barbara. He has had a crush on her since high school and doesn’t think him and I are in love anymore, that we lost the spark. Really? Really good way to talk about it by leaving! But it gets better; then he decides to stay because itís too expensive to leave and gets pissed when I say to block her number and delete her off of Facebook. I asked him to break it off with her and he tells me he don’t want to hurt her. Oh, but its ok to hurt me? Wtf? || So we tried working it out and guess who sends him a message this week? Itís now October and this all happened in June. I’ve been nice and haven’t said anything to her but I’m not going to be nice much longer. He has put me through so much over the years and I have always stood by his side. I’m ready to be like go and good luck finding someone to put up with your shit.