This man Bob Ely looks up women on Facebook, friend requests them then private messages them trying to pick them up! Lying to them telling he is lonely! But he is not as innocent as he seems. He likes married women but he himself is in a relationship that he lies to people about so he can move in on there emotions. || My husband of 17 years an I were having a few problems, what couple doesn’t! In sept 2013 I got the friend request thought it was innocent, but then when the messages started coming in, I fell for it! My husband and I grew apart and for the next 7 1/2 months this man who found me on FB was playing me and my emotions. I am not perfect, but I have a caring heart, I felt sorry for him, he had some awful story’s about the tough life he was having, how unhappy he was! Talked me into thinking he was living in a situation that made him miserable and mistreated! I myself was not happy so we at first we’re friends but he wanted more I was separated from my husbands so we moved on talking or texting everyday, then me driving 1 hour 1 way to see him. But the day came when he started borrowing money then asking me to help pay his bills! Then calling me non stop, then he started grabbing me! I knew it was all wrong… || I then realized things weren’t so good he wanted his cake and eat it too! I did some research and found out he was in a relationship with a women who he lied about. I asked him to pay me back all the money and I would walk away like nothing ever happened! But he played me saying, it’s not what you think, I am stressed out and have a full plate, I need you don’t leave me! I said this is time for me to walk. That same day I received a message from the women who he said was not his girlfriend, just made mistake with her got her pregnant! Yeah right! She asked if I was involved with her man, I did not lie to her. I felt horrible but I told her we had been seeing each other for 7 1/2 months. But that he told me they were not together only he was taking care of his daughter when needed. || I walked away, never saw the money!!! Lesson learned found out that I was not the first women he had been doing this to. He has another married women who I have since found out about. This home-wrecker has no remorse, he claims he has done no wrong! I am so very sorry to his girlfriend, she is the victim, but she sticks by him, blaming me & the other women for wrong doing, when her man Bob continues to be a home wrecker || I am hoping that women he prays on next can see right through him! He invites all his women to his shop, that is how he keeps them a secret for so long! Please beware!