The homewrecker that I am speaking of was my best friend since junior high. We did everything together, we were always with each other, we went to prom together in the same group. She was my very best friend, I told her everything and she told me everything. She was supposed to be in my wedding and after I paid for her dress to be special made she never showed up at my wedding. I didnít talk to her for a year or two after that and then we got back in touch and became friends again. My husband and I have four children and have known each other since we were in junior high, we were married in 2003. In 2008 before our third child he left me in Louisiana to go back to Arkansas and find work and then we would move back to Arkansas with him. || I called my friend Brandi to go by my husbandís hotel and check on him, well apparently she checked on his every need cause that is when it started. After our child was born with a lot of health problems we moved to Arkansas with him. After we were all there for about two months my husband started running off saying he was working or going on job interviews and then not coming home until the next day. Well I finally found out who it was and I was devastated, not only was I losing my husband but my best friend who I had been talking to about it was the one that he was cheating with. He moved out leaving us homeless, moneyless, carless, and with three children one of which was fixing to have her first brain surgery. He moved in with her and her child and did his own thing for about eight or nine months, I quit calling him and talking to him after about six months and then one day out of the blue, he called and wanted to come home. I know what youíre all thinking but I let him come home. Things were really weird for a while but eventually got back to normal. Then in 2012 after our last child was born I found out that he cheated on me with her again. || YES he is still with me and things are good but I will be the first to say. Once your husband cheats on you one time, things are never like they should be, you always have what he has done in the back of your mind and in my case every fun memory that I have of my junior high or high school experience has her in it, so that makes it even worse. My husband and I are still together and things are going good. I know the signs and what to look for so if he starts cheating again I will know and when it happens or if it happens again, I promise it will be the last time.