This lady has been repetitively talking to my husband. They had an affair about 13 years ago and just so happened to bump into each other at a local store. They started talking and because me and my husband of now 19 years were having problems, she worked her way back into his life and into his arms. I had told her to stay away and that nothing they had could withstand 23 years of what he and I shared. || My husband is going through his midlife crisis and although that is no excuse it is why I have been tolerable to his behavior. Now with her on the other hand she is shady. She has two kids by another man who wants nothing to do with her and now we know why…….maybe if she learned to worry about what is going on in her own life and not in the lives of married men, she would be able to find her own and leave mine the hell alone.