I had been with my now ex fiance who is in the army, on and off for 6 years. He proposed in April in front of my family, we were technically engaged since December because he was deployed in Afghanistan. He had come back on March 13th, 2013. I was living in Georgia with him up until April 27th, 2013 then he officially proposed. He went back to Georgia and I was in Wisconsin. Things changed shortly after he left back to Georgia. This girl ruined my relationship. I looked at phone records the relationship started on July 12th. || We have previous trust issues before and I decided to give him another chance and he promised me he would do anything to stay in the relationship. He made me take the blame for all the issues we had in our relationship he made me think I didn’t trust him. He went to go see another married girl in June 2 weeks before he came to see me. But that’s beside the point. He told me that he couldn’t commit to a relationship because he wanted to do things in a relationship like talk, flirt, text and hang out with girls( but he did that while he was in a relationship with me.) and he knew it was wrong to do this while being in a relationship. Then I find out that she has been pursuing him since we were together. Always texting him and calling him. I called her and I had asked her if they had anything going on, she told me no. Then I find out later that he let the relationship continue after. He had blocked the number from my phone, so I couldn’t text or call her anymore. At the time I was still with him. || I have called him and she answered the phone, and told me I was desperate for calling him and he doesn’t want to talk to me, she laughed at me and hung up on me. I called on the 21st of July and she answered the phone again, I told her I needed to talk to him and it was personal and she wouldn’t give the phone to him. She called me desperate again for calling him and texting him. I told her that it was something personal and I did not want to talk to her about it, she asked like it was her business if someone has passed away or was sick. Then at that point I knew she wouldn’t let him talk to me, I finally told her what I needed to tell him -that I was pregnant. She THEN let me talk to him. || I found out after only a week of him knowing her they are sleeping in the same bed that he and I both bought for our house together when we were going to get married. Now he tells me he cares about me and wants to be there for the baby. So for all those ladies that have men in the Military in Fort Gordon, Georgia be careful of this homewrecker she will weasel her way in any relationship. She is also in the Army as well and is a big disgrace. She does not care if the guy is in engaged or in a relationship, if she knows what she wants, she will do anything to get it.