I was married to my now ex-husband for 4 years. We had our ups and downs but he found an escape from his problems by using narcotics. He stole pain pills from both my mother and his, who are physically impaired, just to get his fix. I tried to get him help, but the behavior continued until I finally told him heís got to stay somewhere else, until he makes the choice to help himself. After all I didn’t want him all doped up around our kids. He went to stay with his friend Mike who lives out of town, and this is where the separation began in early April of 2012. I would let him come to my house and visit the kids; he would sometimes stay for the weekend and then go back to his friends. We were still together, making things work, trying to keep our marriage together even with the distance. One night when he came to stay the weekend, he fell asleep and his phone went off. So naturally I checked to see who was texting him so late, it was one of his friends wanting to see what he was up to. While backing out of the messages I noticed 2 conversations from females I never met before, so I opened the first one it was his friends wife, she sent a pic of her tits. The next conversation was between him and Brianna this 21 year old girl, it was lengthy…they’d been texting each other constantly. I confronted him about it, and he claimed”she was just a friend”. After that he changed his password on Facebook and started getting really defensive about it, and her. || One night I left work early and went by his friendís place where he was staying only to find them sitting out front knee to knee. This time he was pissed that I just stopped by unannounced and blew up on me in front of her, saying”were done” and acting like he had no interest in me anymore. Of course he called me later saying he didnít mean it and he wants to be with me, sheís just a good friend blah blah blah. About a week later I get a call from a friend of mine who apparently was at a party with my ex and Brianna, she said she gave them a ride back to Mikes and Brianna stayed the night there with him. This girl knew he had a wife, knew he had a family…and used his vulnerability to make her move and it worked. I went over there and told him what Iíd heard and he finally admitted it. || That was it for us. I booted his ass out for good and filed for divorce. He got NOTHING but visitations with the kids. He still tried texting me and stuff after but I had a hurt so deep there was nothing he said that would ever make me want to be with him again. They dated for a while, and I recently found out they broke up because she was immature and constantly trying to fuck other guys. Haha karmas a bitch huh!? Iíve totally moved on; found a great guy and am happier than ever. Just watch your man around this one ladies, she doesnít have any morals.