This girl is a family friend and had known my ex-husband of six years and his family all her life. Her mother and my ex-husband s mother were coworkers. || My ex and I had been married six years had a baby girl together. He had never been completely faithful during our marriage but I worked thru it until her. || She knew he was married, knew we had a child that adored him, but didn’t care. He would talk to her on the nights I worked and when he worked his 24 hour fire fighter shifts. (He’s a fireman, she’s a nurse) I am a 911 dispatcher. || I started just feeling something wasn’t right so I checked the phone bill and noticed a lot of long, late night phone calls and thousands of texts to one specific number. I found out it was her and confronted him with it, he said they were “just friends”. I told him it needed to stop and he said no. So I called his mother and told her what he was doing and who it was with and asked if she thought it was right, she said it was no big deal, he has the right to have female friends. || We tried to move on or at least I thought we were, but he continued talking to and seeing her. I found the proof again in black n white on the phone bill. I confronted them both, they kept saying the “just friends” bit. I told her to leave him alone; she said she was doing nothing wrong. That evening, my ex was laying on the couch asleep and the dog, a six week old puppy started scratching and he scooped the dog up and threw her across the floor I got in his face and spit on him and told him to never touch her or me again. We got in an argument that ended up in a call to 911 because it was so heated. The law came and he left. || I went out to look for him later and he was at her apartment. After that he moved out and in with his Aunt, who hated me and adored the new girl. We were taking a break I was told by him … two weeks later I was served with separation papers. I called him and he said it was over he was done. || We went thru the process and stayed apart. I continued to see Brittany’s vehicle at his aunt’s house and he swore it was a neighbor. I got her tag and ran it at work and found out it was her. I called him and confronted him, he lied and said it wasn’t her, she happen to be there and grabbed the phone and told me to leave them alone!! I was harassing them! || I was hated and shunned by his family and friends. No one wanted to talk to me or have anything to do with our daughter. He would come over and have dinner and sex with me then go home to her and deny it every time and I was the liar, even with texts messages and phone call messages to prove it. I was always the liar and one causing the problems. I had no contact with him for a while. || He came back to me several times wanting to go to lunch and I did, wanting sex, and I did. Talking trash about Brittany and how nasty she was, how she wouldn’t do things like I did. || We got back together in January of 2011 and I found out he was still talking to and seeing her the entire six weeks we were back together, I was done and told him to leave. (I WAS still living in our house at that time) || In all this time he was not wanting or trying to see his daughter, she missed him terribly. || Throughout the months he was still stopping by for occasional booty calls, and I would do it because I still missed him. Brittany knew he was still having sex with me but didn’t care. || Our divorce was final in September 2011, October 2011 he asked her to marry him, August 2012 they were married. || Not a whole lot took place between us the year they were engaged. He didn’t see his daughter for almost 2 years during this time. Said he didn’t have time for her yet I would see pics of him and her together on vacation or a club or something fun with the new family. But he had no time for his daughter. She hates him for it now . || This past summer he started coming back around and calling me. Soon he was coming by for dinner, booty calls, trips together swimming with our daughter, spending the night with us while the new wife works night shift. Promising he was miserable and leaving her three and four times. He never would so each time he broke a promise I would send her an email telling her what he’d been doing. She never will believe me and I have pics and videos and texts but I’m lying. She just doesn’t get it. || Now he’s mad at me once again and refuses to speak to me or his daughter once again.