I honestly don’t know when the affair started i’m guessing sometime in august because that’s when she started working where my (soon to be ex) husband works, that’s also when I started noticing slight changes in him. I found out for sure about the affair Dec.14th 2014 because I finally honestly had the balls to confront him about it. What they say is true”woman’s intuition”. He made me feel like I was going crazy that there was something wrong with me for months and I’d finally had enough. Actually the weekend before the day I found out I told him I didn’t like that they were friends on facebook and he’s reply was”Trust Me Baby.”Seriously? Why he couldn’t have just told me then I don’t know, I had to pry it out of him. She knew he was married with two small children at home. I was willing to try to make things work I loved the man I married. He agreed to end things with her and to my knowledge he did but I guess that didn’t matter to her. Not even 12hrs later she was texting him. He said said he couldn’t delete her off facebook which was one of the conditions of course, so it was over then. || The first time I saw her was while we were still married at a town event that we went to she didn’t say anything to him or me just walked past. I don’t understand how she could see us out as a family yet still do what she did. I then saw her again after we had filed for divorce and I confronted her and she actually had the nerve to tell me that she respected me. Honestly it took everything in me not to kick her ass. I just let her know pretty much that even though she has my husband she better know her place when it comes to my children. I found photos on our laptop after I found out about the affair. Some were not so PG so I won’t post them on here because I don’t know if they are allowed. My dumbass ex forgot that he synced the laptop to his cell phone so every pic she sent him was automatically sent to the laptop. I’ll just say its great evidence for the divorce. The photo of them at the mall together was taken and posted on facebook not even a week after I found out about the affair. Ever since I found out I she has been posting photos of them together like she won some prize. No honey you didn’t win a prize what you won is a man you cheated on his wife of seven years. I have one thing for you to think about if you happen to see this, while you’re sitting back laughing and probably enjoyed the way he treated me, If he can do that to a woman he has loved for the past 10 years and the mother of his children, just imagine what he can do to you. Because it can happen, look at me, I never thought this would have happened.