Cathy Cladis Jackson, Missouri Missouri

I have been debating on whether or not to even post my story. But as I saw this page may be ending soon I knew I would regret it if I didn’t. It seems as if this woman’s life hasn’t been affected at all by her adulterous behavior. While this affair has caused me so much embarrassment and disappointment that my husband could even be attracted to someone like her. So I feel as though I have to show the world what she really is because she portrays herself to be a classy successful Christian family woman….all of which are false! || She began working with my husband at (removed) back in 2014. She pursued him hard, planting seeds to make him question his life and see me differently. Promising him a better life financially and otherwise if he were with her. Even though he wasn’t smart enough to know that before this job she sold makeup and that her husband paid for everything including her plastic surgery and breast implants. Little did he know he was only im

I have been debating on whether or not to even post my story. But as I saw this page may be ending soon I knew I would regret it if I didn’t. It seems as if this woman’s life hasn’t been affected at all by her adulterous behavior. While this affair has caused me so much embarrassment and disappointment that my husband could even be attracted to someone like her. So I feel as though I have to show the world what she really is because she portrays herself to be a classy successful Christian family woman….all of which are false! || She began working with my husband at (removed) back in 2014. She pursued him hard, planting seeds to make him question his life and see me differently. Promising him a better life financially and otherwise if he were with her. Even though he wasn’t smart enough to know that before this job she sold makeup and that her husband paid for everything including her plastic surgery and breast implants. Little did he know he was only improving her body for other men. And of course played the victim, convincing my husband that her life and marriage were so bad. That her husband was a terrible guy that paid no attention to her or their children. She is also married yet told him she would leave her husband as we’ll. She would give him head and have sex in parking lots on their lunch breaks or pay for hotel rooms for them to use in the morning before work. She knew all about me and my five kids, seeing that our pictures were all over his desk. She would bring her children that she has with her husband on her dates with my husband. This woman has absolutely no respect for her kids, her husband, or herself. She was very proud to be the other woman and is not ashamed of her actions. || Long story short I found out and went to her job. Of course she never would meet me in person. I hate to admit it but my anger got the best of me and I put a big sign on her car telling her home wrecking ass to stay away from my husband. I also messaged her and her husband on fb. Her only response was to say she hadn’t slept with my husband then blocked me. Her husband didn’t believe me either she obviously had him very fooled, which is fine I just thought he should know. At the time I didn’t think about sending him all the naked photos I had of her. || My husband and I separated for a few months. During this time she continued to see him a few times, but of course never left her”terrible” marriage. || My husband and I decided to try to make it work and got back together. He quit his job that same day and sat down with me to send her a text ending things for good explaining what a mistake it was and that the attention and excitement she gave him made him lose sight of what he had at home for over eleven years. We have attended marriage counseling and are doing our best to get past all this. It seems like he is very remorseful and has done the best he can to reassure me that he is committed to making this marriage work. For the first four months he was back he went without a phone and Facebook and basically never left my side until I was comfortable trusting him again. He has been home seven months now and hasn’t given me any reason to worry or doubt him but it is still hard for me. I wonder if there are any relationships that actually make it after infidelity because it has taken such a big toll on our relationship. And can a man really change after a mistake this big. The trust is still not back completely but I have forgiven him. And I would’ve forgiven her too had she actually cared and felt bad for the part she played but she doesn’t! I don’t want to carry around hate for anyone and I’m hoping exposing her and telling my story might help me let go and move on. karma is a bitch…and I can’t wait!!!!

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