My wife and I have been married for over 8 years, been together for 10 years. I had a work related injury.so my wife decided she would go back to work after being a housewife for over 6 years. She went to work on 3rd shift at a local factory. || I knew what time she got off work I knew what time she’d be home. Well she started running later and later getting home. A couple days been over two hours late. Here I was sitting at home with a 16 month old baby while she was working. I notice things started changing with her why she was acting around me. She started talking about a fellow co worker by the name of Chris Moore. || I had already been married once and the bend left me for another guy so I knew what to look for. I started watching Facebook, san little pictures and stuff that he was sending her. I’ve done some research finding out what I cared about him everybody told me that he was a big flirt at work. He is married with 3 children. || So my suspicions poor up but I didn’t have any proof damn right before Thanksgiving 2013 I received a phone call from his wife. She told me about some of the messages sent between them. My wife had already started locking her phone and hiding it. They never did sleep together according to my wife but he did kiss her. || I started talking to some friends about what was going on they all told me to take our children and leave, but I didn’t. I wasn’t ready to give up on her yet I stood my ground I change my ways I started doing more things romantic, just to get her attention again. Then finally I talk to my wife but she did not want to listen to what I had to say about everything. But I tried to tell her if she left me for him since this was his second affair in 2 years that he would end up doing it again to her. And that I had always been faithful and loyal to her. || The message and continued between the two and it drove me crazy I wanted to give up but I couldnít. Because my love was so great for her I wanted to be the man to have her in my arms. || Finally right before Christmas in 2013 I talked her into leaving her job, getting her away from him and she did. They still continue to message her over another month and as I try to talk to her get her to listen but she was pretty much saying. She did not know what she wanted. She says she loves me but she was in love with him also. || Finally I wanted something to give †I told her she had to pick either me or his cheating ass! Then a couple days later she came around she open her phone up to me she started showing me the messages between them. She had brought out notes and a card that he had gave her a promise to take her to Smoky Mountains or to the beach. And then she told me that I was right the whole time. And that she was staying with me but we had it last and first so we mess with his head a little bit. || Finally in February 2014 everything came to an end we went had her phone number changed and he has messaged her 2 or 3 times since then I have messaged him back. She has opened up, being honest with me being truthful and not hiding anything, with that I respect her and she has gained my trust back. || I don’t want anyone else is marriage to be ruined by this guy or any home breaker at all. I love my wife with all my dear heart and will give my own life to protect ours and keep her safe.