My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years. We have had our ups and downs and our past which we have reconciled and moved on. For the past year and a half I was under the impression that we were having an honest relationship. He took a job in Fargo, North Dakota two years ago and began a relationship with Christina Murphy who is a nurse at Sanford Health Hospital in Downtown Fargo, about 6 months ago. He came back home in July and was acting very different with me, not wanting to have sex and constantly arguing. After 2 weeks and one of our arguments he decided to leave for the night. He came home the next day and I decided to look in his phone and saw that he called her in the middle of the night. I called her back and asked who she was and she immediately hung up. I called back and found out her name was Christina (SAME AS MINE) so I proceeded to ask him who she was. He simply said she was just a friend and that he wanted to talk to someone. I immediately felt like he was lying. He kept denying that anything ever happened and that I should stop overreacting. He then got phone calls in the middle of the night but refused to answer the phone and tell her to stop calling, and didn’t want to return text messages from her. I begged and pleaded for him to tell her to stop calling and that if she was just a friend she would be respecting him being at home. He never did. I checked his voice mail while he was asleep and her friend left a voice mail cussing him out and telling him he didn’t have any balls to confess anything. He still denied that anything ever happened and that her friend was just some hooker who decided to act stupid. || I called and asked her what was she doing calling my husband, she then said,”Get over yourself BITCH” A few days went by and he started acting more attentive….but one week later her friend text him asking him if he was busy, and if he could just text or call her friend, Christina…I then called her again and told her to please call me and explain what was going on between them…she called and told me that he told her he told her about me, and that they met around Halloween and then saw each again in February and then spent nearly every day with him. I EVEN WENT TO VISIT HIM FOR A WEEK IN MARCH WITH ONE OF OUR DAUGHTERS AND MY MOM….so when he would hang up with me on video chat, he would go with her. She said he told he loved her and cried with her when he was coming home. So this skank KNEW HE WAS MARRIED, he met her coworkers, brothers and whoever else…. || SHE THEN TOLD ME THAT SHE WAS DONE WITH HIM AND THAT SHE WOULD NEVER CALL AGAIN. He continued to deny and said she was lying…she then used someone else’s phone to call him twice the next night but he didn’t answer the phone and told me he had nothing to say to her. After a day of not talking to him, he finally confessed to me that he did fall out of love with me a long time ago…and that he fell for her…I know people get lonely sometimes and run to someone but knowing he was married is NOT RIGHT!!They were both wrong and especially her taking advantage of a lonely married man. After I called her and cussed her out she then forwarded me some messages he had sent her….and on her Facebook she was crying that her heart was broken…BITCH PLEASE…heartbroken over a married man choosing to stay with his wife and family. || FUCK HIM AND FUCK HER TOO!!