My husband and I had been married for 7 year when he left for a Steelers Monday night football game in Pittsburgh, right before our youngest daughters first day of kindergarten. It ticked me off that he would be missing her first day, but fighting with him is like talking to a brick wall. Little did I know that he and who I thought was one of my best friend’s from childhood had planned to meet up there and spend the 2 days together. || I didn’t find out about the affair until almost a month later and confronted them both. He apologized profusely while she said she did it to get back at me for I don’t know what. My husband and I worked past it and I got pregnant with our son, we put the affair behind us and thought it was over (little did we know). When I was 5/6 months pregnant he got child support papers in the mail from her, he and 2 other men had to go take a paternity test for her new son. It turns out the boy was my husbands. All this just to get back at me for some unknown reason (she wouldn’t give me a real reason) and I have since changed my number and refuse to speak to her since she decided to start harassing the both of us. My husband and I are no longer together and are in the process of getting divorced due to his other many indiscretions.