Ciera Armstrong Kansas Kansas

My husband and I were married in Dec 2011 and I was 2 month pregnant. Jan 1st he deployed to Afghanistan. I got out of the army to be a wife and stay at home mom. So in February I started Facebooking this other wife whose husband was in my husbandís platoon. She told me that her husband told her rumors were going around about my husband sleeping with another female soldier. At the time I confronted my husband and he denied everything and I believed him. So I blocked the wife and never talked to her again. || So a few weeks later I heard more rumors from my friends over there, about sex and him asking for condoms and they were hanging out alone. So again I talked to my husband and he swore there was nothing but friendship. He gave me his Facebook password and told me to believe him. Another month goes by and I see a message on his Facebook pop up. He wrote her and was talking to her and she talked right back. The next day I went to reread the conversation and he erased it! So I kne

My husband and I were married in Dec 2011 and I was 2 month pregnant. Jan 1st he deployed to Afghanistan. I got out of the army to be a wife and stay at home mom. So in February I started Facebooking this other wife whose husband was in my husbandís platoon. She told me that her husband told her rumors were going around about my husband sleeping with another female soldier. At the time I confronted my husband and he denied everything and I believed him. So I blocked the wife and never talked to her again. || So a few weeks later I heard more rumors from my friends over there, about sex and him asking for condoms and they were hanging out alone. So again I talked to my husband and he swore there was nothing but friendship. He gave me his Facebook password and told me to believe him. Another month goes by and I see a message on his Facebook pop up. He wrote her and was talking to her and she talked right back. The next day I went to reread the conversation and he erased it! So I knew there was something going on. Yet we talked and I choice to stay. I was 5 months pregnant and he swore he would quit talking to her. So I wrote her on Facebook and she told me there was nothing going on. She didn’t like him and they were just working together. || So months go by and July comes and he comes home on leave and we have the birth of our beautiful baby girl. He posted a pic of our daughter and that women had the nerve to write”congratulations battle” on the pic. I was pissed. When I checked his Facebook he wrote her thanks and told him solider to tell her hi for him. I was livid! He left when Brooklyn was a week old. From August to November was fantastic. He was calling all the time, and we skyped every chance he got. We became really close. Even though in the back of my mind, I knew he had lied. So November they start planning on the soldiers coming home and he told me he didn’t want me to be at the home coming and he would just come on break to get me and move us back to Kansas. I knew then there was no way! So I moved back and set up our house early November. || In December we knew they were coming home after Christmas so he sent me some of his stuff back so he wouldn’t have to travel with it. When it got to the house, my friend Shelby and I went through it, just to unpack it. In the stack of pictures of us, our daughter, all the letters I sent him, his mom sent him, and my family, I found this folded up letter(the kind that he has to long the creases were going bad). The letter was from the HW to my husband. || It says ďI know youíre always going to be there for me and Iíll always be there for you. Youíre my battle. I know you don’t come in my room for just”that”. But just one question, why do you kiss me the way you do? And as far as us hanging out when we get back. Weíll see”. When he Skyped that night I read the letter out loud to him. And he looked up and said it wasn’t his letter. So we fought back and forth and I said if he lied one more time, I was going to leave him. So he admitted that in March 2012 that she came into his room and they kissed once. No tongue. Then she left the room. So we talked and talked and I stayed. || He came home from Afghanistan January 1st. everything was fine for the first two weeks. Then I couldn’t get over him cheating. We went to counseling, and the session was great, for me, but he told me he would never go again. So another two weeks go by and itís February. February 1st we went to file our taxes and I came into the bedroom and his phone was lying on the bed and I got this gut feeling to check it. And when I did, I about died. There were texts from her about them hanging out behind my back and her wanting to meet our daughter and him meet her son! I flipped out and called her and threatened both of them or I would turn them into the army for adultery. He swore he would block her from Facebook and Verizon and she told me it was all him and she didn’t want him. So another two weeks go by and he did what he said. || Well Feb 18 we went to Kentucky to see his family to have them meet our daughter. We went on a date night dinner and a movie. So we get home and he goes to shower and I check Verizon. And I found him texting with her all night and left our movie to call her and she called him. Three phone calls throughout the movie and had told me he felt sick! So we fight nonstop the rest of the week and all the way home (10 hour drive we didn’t speak). We got home and the Wednesday after, he came inside from being on the phone and he told me he wanted a divorce. He didn’t love me anymore. I told him lets work it out. Letís try a separation. So I left march 3 to Wyoming for three weeks. As I was gone he talked to her every day and late night phone calls and he denied it every day. || So I came back and we fought every day from March 31 to May 3. During that time he continued to talk to her. I friended her on Facebook and she blocked me. He changed his Facebook password and took me off the Verizon account, and told me he still wanted the divorce. So April 22 I got an attorney and filed for divorce and I packed the house, took our daughter and left town. We just finalized out divorce two weeks ago. And he wants to get back together and work it out and me to move to Kentucky with him next year. He swears he hasn’t talked to her but yet they still work together and all my friends tell me otherwise. So beware of this woman. She knew he was married before they deployed. She knew we were expecting and for the next year continued to screw my family into the ground.

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