My fiance goes to Klamath Falls for work, quite often. He stays there during the week and comes home on the weekends, all for work. He has done this for the last 3 years. One day, he came home and he was just mean as all could be to me. The phone calls were getting shorter, the conversations were getting shorter, he was working longer weekends when home, and was just outright mean to me. He was to the point where he was bad mouthing me to other people, which hurt bad. || I had this gut wrenching feeling that something was going on. I was having dreams. He was getting meaner, the calls were getting earlier and shorter, but yet he was more demanding of me. I would hand him money weekly, but during those 2 months, the amount was becoming more and more. He was turning into an alcoholic in no time to try and keep up with her drinking, buying her alcohol and leaving her alcohol on her porch step. || The one night he called too early, said he was going to watch something on tv and go to bed. I started looking at the phone bill the next day and see text messages from an odd phone number, and him replying. There were even phone calls back and forth. Upon asking him, he denied it, of course. I called her, and she denied it, of course, but that was because he didn’t want to get caught in his lie to her either. || They had sex 1 time, so I was told, before anything had started. But yet the text messages to each other (yes, I was able to retrieve them and read them thanks to the smartphones that we think delete things when in reality they do not, and all phone calls and text messages are recoverable), he did way more than that, and from some of them, show they had sex at least 3 times. || No, this isn’t 100% on her, he is just as guilty as she is. When you have a 5 year old telling you that daddy is never coming home because daddy has a new girlfriend, and text messages that are pretty graphic from her, this is on her too. How could you not go into some guys place, and not see anything that had to do with the presence of another female there? How could you not ask him if he had a girlfriend? Yah, you asked him if he was married and he was honest, said he wasn’t that he was divorced with 2 kids, but too embarrassed to tell you he had a 5 year old at home. Her kids don’t live with her, they live with her mom because she can’t even take care of herself. She was playing him and she was playing 2 other guys at the same time, trying to see who will pay for what of hers and cater to her needs. || To me, she is a gold digging home wrecker. I mean, who goes through $4k in a month to spend on nothing? and its not all alcohol either…she admitted to approaching him at the store, she admitted to starting the text messages, she admitted to luring him to her, making him feel sorry for her, along with the other 2 guys. She is still married, and can’t even take care of her boys but wants to play house with everyone elses fiances/husbands.