After my husband and I spent a wonderful week without the kids in Mexico, which was awesome because we had not been getting along very well ever since we got marriage in Jamaica 3/2012. With all the trouble we were having I thought it is crazy but he wanted to go to celebrate our first wedding anniversary. During our trip we had a great time, spending time together, having sex a lot, and I was starting the feel happy to be with him. One evening we were coming out of room, he was ahead as usual three to four steps ahead of me and he stopped and said ďyou know what I should think of you more, and stop and wait for youĒ and at that moment my heart melted and I thought everything would okay, we would be okay. || I could have not been so wrong, after our trip we quickly got set back into our normal routines. The kids, the family my job where I work 12 hour days and a lot of off shifts and his job at a small local college. One night after work around 3 am when I got home I picked up his computer and his facebook conversation popped up, this was the exact second that I felt my heart break. My husband was cheating on my husband was dating a 21 year old bible beating blonde skank. Conversation after conservations about how she missed him and loved him and he was telling her that she loved her too. I had no idea what I was going to do, many thoughts were rushing in my, as I read I found out that he was talking to her during our beach trip. The next thing I knew that I was standing over him, seeing him there sleeping in our bed, I started to loss control and I started screaming Ďwho is she, who the fuck is Cortney, who the fuck is sheĒ it turned out that she was a student at the college where he worked in as a vet tech. He had been talking to for about two and half weeks. His answer was ďnobodyĒ then as I keep hitting him and yelling at him, I could feel my heart break into my pieces. He simply got out of bed informed me that he was going to work, then he got up into my face and saidĒ I was talking to her because I missed her, she makes me happy, and I have not loved you since November (keep in mind it is April) after he left I post shit all over his and her facebook pages telling the world what they had done but of course they were quickly deleted. I did just like any good wife did, I cried my eyes out, than did my best to hold myself together and our two beautiful girl up and off to school and quickly returned to my bed to continue my crying routine. My phone was blowing up with messages from him, of how he loved me, how he never loved her, how sorry he was and begging me to stay with himĒ we have like 23 years togetherĒ, but I was done he came home to find his belongs on the front yard, like any good redneck women would have done. How could I ever trust him again? || Now about her, she is 21 years old still lives with her mother, goes to school to be a vet tech, while she works part time at vet clinic. I got her number and called her, from my cell phone, home phone, my friendís phone, and messaged her on Facebook I wanted to know her side of this. Finally she called me and told me that she was sorry and that she never meant for anything to happen but she could not help who she loved, and that he called her a told her she was nothing and the he loved me, and he didnít wanted anything to do with her and that she would leave him alone, stupid me took her word for it. I didnít scream or yell, Iím a lady and it would have not got me anywhere, I asked questions and even started to feel sorry for her but that quickly changed, because with a little research I found out this was not her first time. She had made moves on other married men at the college an IT guy, and a professor that she got fired because he didnít want her. The rest of these guys turned down because they loved their wives, but not my husband my husband who is a attention seeking whore and was eating it up, having someone half his age pay attention to him. || She continues to trying to get in touch with my husband. Now keep in mind she claims to be a virgin, church goer, god loving, good girl, but I donít think it say anywhere in the bible that thou shall get in a married manís car and suck face back side of the college. (I do have the a little relief that they didnít have sex but Iím sure he would have if the chance would have been there.) She continued for months later crying about how he broke her heart. Iím pretty sure that they have had no contract since then, expect the two times he saw her at work. He has now changed his phone number, my phone number, his job, sold the car that that tramp had been in (I would not get me back into) even with all that she still continue post things on her Facebook, twitter and pinster about how she missed him and how crazy I was and how I took her man for months later, yes I know I could stop looking, Iím working on it. After about two months her post to change to more being in loved, she had found herself a new victim and I was not at all surprised to find out that he too was in a relationship. Maybe she just canít get a man of her own, now that he has gone back to his girlfriend she again is boohooing over this relationship. This shows me that nothing will stop her from doing this again to someone, nothing will stop her from going against her faint, hurting other people and children, because I believe she has no morals. I hope someday when she does get married that some little slut like herself comes into her marriage. I hope she could feel the pain that I feel every day, that she has to comfort her kids when their daddy is gone, that she gets to feel like her world has been turned upside down. She has not only changed my life but she has changed the lives of four incent child, she has forever changed how my children will remember their childhood, she has changed how my girls will view relationships, and the way his son thinks about his father and how you should treat women. She should have to come and look them in their eyes and explain to them why their mother and father are no longer living together, and why their mother cries all the time, this is the reason I wrote this and support this web site because herself actions have changed our lives forever. || Donít get me wrong he is at fault, he was the one who cheated on me and he has lost a lot but this is not about him. We are doing counseling and he is a 100% in and Iím about 10%, Iím not sure how you get past the anxiety, nausea, the sickening feeling I get every day and the worry about my girls and how this has changed them. Iím not sure how you work on a relationship if you donít love that person the way you did, if you canít forgive them and you are nowhere close to even think about forgetting how they have hurt you, but for our family I will try. If it does not work at least I can look at my girls and feel good that I really tried. || My hope is someone see this or she see this and it makes her think about dating a married man is a hateful, selfish and dishonorable thing to do, for the wife, for her kids, and for herself. I hope this raise yourself up and she starts practicing what she preaches and never does his again. KARMAS IS A BITCH AND YOU ARE NOT THE NICE CHRISTIAN PERSON THAT YOU PRETEND TO BE AND I WANT TO EXPOSED YOU FOR WHAT YOU ARE!