The home wrecker name is Crystal Ingram and she is from Lansing/South Holland, Illinois. Unsuspecting wife finds out husband has been involved in a sexual relationship with his co-worker for a year and a half. I am not a total fool because you can feel when things are not right with your spouse. We have been married for 10 years now, so of course I know… There was this one particular female he worked with who he introduce me to and said that she was cool. We were having car trouble, so when we were in a bind she would give him a ride and drop him off near our house. Little did I know that their relationship would develop to something more. So we were having a few marital issues and guess who he began to confide in… her. Maybe it was my fault but I never pushed my husband away. I had confronted her and him on several separate occasions about them having an affair, but they both denied it. || So some time had past and I thought me and my husband were good, although he was doing some things that alerted me to something was going on (like Crystal said your food was good from thanksgiving). I asking when did you see her… ohhh I dropped her off a plate. Why? She didn’t have any food. And he also constantly going out on the weekends and not spending time with me. But I never put all the pieces together, on second thought I actually did but he kept denying it. He also gave me the phone back that we had a plan on since we have been married and got his own phone on his own account. I told him that he needed to unfriend her and he said he would. || A few months later I ended up getting a feeling that he hadn’t unfriended her and I started looking through his phone seeing that they were still calling one another and he had pictures of her in there. So I asked again was there anything going on between them and he said there is nothing going on, we have to talk because we work together and that is it. So one day after work I stopped by his job and I saw him and her leave out and sat in his car together. They sat there for a few minutes then he took her to her car and she hopped out. I confronted him about the situation. He said they went to lunch and that was all. The more I began to push about the situation then he began to say he didn’t know if he still wanted to be with me. He stated that she had his heart. I’m thinking all of this from a lunch outing and working together… ohhh wow. Me being naive just thinking they were friends, not knowing that they had moved past that stage a long time ago, I began praying and having the women at my church pray too. And I made a stand that he needed to unfriend her. || After two weeks or so he dragged it out and finally unfriended her, mind you this is at the end of the school year (both of them worked for a high school). He wouldn’t call her up like I wanted him to and tell her. He said he would tell her once he got to work that day. I agreed to his terms and once he got home I asked how did things go and he stated she said ohhh you are going to let her control you again. I am like what, why would she say that and you are only friends. He said because she had knew of our problems through them confiding in one another. I stated that is a lot of information for her to have and you were just friends, but I let things go. || So we hadn’t spoken about her and I believed in my heart at that point they had finally stopped talking. But it is funny how what is done in the dark always comes to the light… One night at 11:30 pm about two weeks ago I went through my husband’s phone. Guess what number popped up a week prior to that, Crystal’s. So I was trying to view the history of the call and I accidentally called her. I hung up the phone call once I figured out how to end the call. She called back to back to back to back, that I finally said why are you calling this number and when you see this number you should just ignore it and I hung up. She called back to back to back to back and I started telling her F you and stop calling but she kept on. Then she started calling my phone and sending texts. So my husband finally got on the phone with her and he started pacifying the situation with her. I am thinking to myself why are you showing her so much respect and she is disrespecting your wife… I stated that to him and he was like I didn’t know what was going on. He said I checked her because she can’t be making those type of threats. || The next morning guess what I wake up to a bunch of crazy talking text messages. She stating I know where you live and I am coming for you. I politely told her karma is coming for you and by the way I will be forwarding all of your text messages to the police. I guess she thought about what I said and calmed down and said that we can talk as grown women so that I can have closure and we can move on. So I took her up on that offer. || Scorned lovers tell it all… first she started by explaining she owed me nothing (which she didn’t) and she implied that my husband was a liar. They had been having good sex for a while now and he was supposed to had been leaving me and buying her a building. But he decided he was going to stay with me because of the kids. She loves him and he is in love with her. Funny how you could say it now since he didn’t choose you but when I asked it was always nothing was going on… so sad. So I am dealing with all of this and he finally told me the truth but my thing is why she had to tell me and not him. I gave him ample time and space to tell the truth but he didn’t. Lesson learned. || So if you ever see Crystal Ingram, know that she don’t mind sleeping with your spouse, swallowing, and allowing him to do whatever to her with his penis.