Starting from the very beginning, my husband and I have had several instances of the boundaries in our marriage being pushed with other women. I won’t go into that, I’ll just focus on this homewrecking pile of trash for now. Starting maybe a year ago, my husband received a new agent to train, he trains tons of agents. I trusted my husband, so there was never an inclination that training other females would ever be an issue. See, my husband is a”Godly man”, always striving to walk the path of the lord. Yeah, right. Anyways, my husband received Crystal as a new trainee, they would spend the majority of the work week together, sometimes up to 7 hours a day. My husband is very attractive, physically, not mentally. Crystal, on the other hand, is not. In either department. She’s also almost old enough to be his mother. Oh, and she’s got a husband of her own and two kids. || So my husband normally spends a defend amount of time with each of his new trainees. But this was excessive. And after the two of them going out for dinner at a nice sit-down restraunt at around 8pm on a Friday night, instead of him coming home to his wife and kids, concern was raised. They would text back and fourth constantly. But it was”work stuff”. I would be trying to tell him exciting news, and he would interrupt me with a burst of laughing, and then say”oh sorry, Crystal just said something really funny.” So naturally, I started feeling uncomfortable. I respectfully approached him, but surely he couldn’t be betraying me, especially with a woman nearly twice his age and, well, looking like that. I tried to tread lightly, didn’t want to be the jealous wife. He assured me there was absolutely nothing to worry about.Fast forward about 6 months, things between he and I have been rocky, there has been another instance of feeling betrayed by him speaking to another woman, which was inappropriate given the circumstances. For about 3 weeks straight, tension was high and the fighting was constant. In my attempt to try to help heal our marriage, I stumbled across the”7 day sex challenge”. Thinking some intimacy could rekindle the flame, and we could get back on track to a healthy and happy marriage. We made it 1 day. ONE. F$&king great. Over the weekend, we attended a good friends wedding. We fought. He felt it was a good time as the ceremony was going on to tell me that we didn’t keep the promises that we made to each other on our wedding day, loud enough for anyone near us to hear. We made up. The next day, Sunday, tension was still high. We fought. We made up. He apologized and I said I couldn’t do it anymore. I was sick of the constant fighting and hostility. I was overwhelmed, to say the least. He had been complaining about me cleaning the garage out all week because of my new found hobby. So the fight stemmed from him asking me to take care of the garage instead of going to visit my grandparents. I popped one of his anti-anxiety pills, went into the garage to attempt to start cleaning, and melted into a puddle of tears and snot on the garage floor. He came out, comforted me, rubbed my back, and said go inside an relax, you’re overwhelved and you need a break. I go inside to make lunch for my young boys, and sitting RIGHT in front of me was his phone, all lit up and on the conversation with Crystal. I didn’t read much, but I did see”she’s crazy, she needs help.” And”I hope you would never do this to me”.I flipped. He grabbed the phone and proceeded to delete every conversation between the two of them,so I’m not sure the depth of this little.”emotional affair” that has been going on. He Denys anything physical took place but why should I trust him? I texted her, and was given the coldest repose I could have imagined.”We’re just friends with a lot in common, I hope that helps.” Bitch. Whore. Homewrecking cunt. Same goes for him. I kicked him out last night, he cried and cried, said he was sorry, yada, yada. Because, and ONLY because we have two young children, and he promises nothing physical took place, I’ve reluctantly given him 1 last chance. I also called all three of their bosses, and massaged her husband on Facebook. Ugh. What a shame.