This started so long ago I cannot even remember all of the details but here are the basics of the story. I have been with this guy since I was 17 years old and I am now 31. Around the age of 24 in 2007, I was pregnant preparing to have my 1st son when I found out that he was talking to this hoe. I asked about their relationship and he told me she was just a friend and that he would stop talking to her. But before he finally stopped talking to her I found emails, which I was too dumb to save of her naked videos of her masturbating, and pictures of her with both her damn legs behind her head in his email account. I trusted him so much I never had a reason to go through his messages or check his phone. If he didn’t leave his phone home by mistake while her went to go play basketball, I would have never known at all. He stopped talking to her then. We went back to living our life, but he never admitted to sleeping with her. He said he needed attention and lied to her telling her he loved her so she could send him the naked material. I forgave him. A big mistake, because I never truly believed him and I never trusted him fully again. He did change. He make many grand gestures for me to believe a word he said.In 2011 I started to get that feeling again that feeling that something wasnít right. I got a hold of his phone again and this time she was texting and calling. I told her to stop calling my phone I pay the bill. She told me to tell my man to give her the keys to her apartment. Then I used his phone to send her all her pictures back to herself and I told her ass she was special, she was a slut to which I got no further calls or responses. All of this happened while I was pregnant with my 2nd child. This time around I gave him lots of chances to tell me the truth so we could heal and move on. I didnít want to kick him to the curb only to replace him with another loser but he wouldnít and this back and forth between her and him went on for two years with me just not trusting him and barely talking to him. Just keeping him around to pay bills and raise the kids. || Recently I got tired of the bullshit and I downloaded a phone recovery program and bingo all the deleted text message photos and even the things he had in his stash app all came to light and I got to see the real extent of what the relationship was about. I knew it was over been him and I years ago, but I just needed the truth. Once I sent him screen shots of his own message the truth flowed out like water from a pipe. He f**ked this hoe and he started talking to her again to f**k up her happiness, the same way she fucked up him.(at least thatís his story) Either way I got the truth. This tramp is nasty and she doesnít have respect for any woman and hardly any for herself.