I am not sure how to begin but I am very hurt. I was caught off guard as we had a happy marriage (or so I thought) and enjoyed going on cruises and have a lot in common. We have never had any major arguments and we have been teased by friends and family about still being on our honeymoon 20 years after we got married. Well, things changed quickly. My husband of 20+ years had a 2+ year affair with Debbie Beckworth Rice of Augusta, GA. I didn’t find out until after she gave him herpes and then of course he gave it to me. She doesn’t seem to care that she destroyed my marriage (we have been together since 1989 and married since 1991) and caused me to get a STD as well. She is (according to her) a good church attending, bible believing, Christian woman in her early 60’s with children and grandchildren. She has been married several times, most for short periods of time. She prefers to date married men for the challenge. She begged my husband to leave me in emails, phone calls, and text messages. She even drove out of state to meet him and beg him to leave me and come back to her. || They started this affair when he was working out of state (in the Augusta, GA/Aiken, SC area) on a temporary contract job that was 2 years long. After the contract ended and he moved back home, it was more of a challenge and she ramped up the pressure. Crying, begging, threats, and the like to get him to leave me. She would even agree that she was wrong to be chasing after a married man when he said no he wasn’t going to leave, but then she just couldn’t stay out of it. It was too much of a challenge. || After she convinced my husband to leave me for her, then she told him that she no longer wants him. She sent him an email telling him that she has done this before and let it go completely to the week before she was supposed to marry one of her other conquests before she called it off. You see, she only likes the challenge of a married man. Not one that is a sure thing. So she has moved on to the next guy. She is a threat to marriages in the area she lives in as she will stop at nothing to get the man to believe that she only wants to be friends. She is after all a good Christian woman that just wants to have friends. But then if he isn’t too willing, she will start getting more aggressive until she gets what she wants. And then it is over and time to move on to the next man.