Deborah Huffman Rochester, New York New York

Ok so this happened years ago but I feel itís important to warn other women in my area about this hoe because she clearly had no shame in trying to wreck me and my childrenís home back in 2009. || I was with my kidís father for 4 years almost 5 and pregnant with our 3rd child when he started working at dominoes delivering pizza. The 1st sign I seen was he kept getting texts and calls from a 503 # I brushed it off thinking its job related then on one of his days off, me being pregnant had a craving for pizza … So he takes me to his job to get us a pizza and when we get there he sees who is working up front and tells me to stay in the car. || Red flags shot up right away, he never would have acted like that before he was always proud to have me around but now he didnít want me to come into his job? I watched thru the window and seen this girl get all smiley when he came in and I knew right then but I dint say anything. †idk if it was because I was trying to keep the pea

Ok so this happened years ago but I feel itís important to warn other women in my area about this hoe because she clearly had no shame in trying to wreck me and my childrenís home back in 2009. || I was with my kidís father for 4 years almost 5 and pregnant with our 3rd child when he started working at dominoes delivering pizza. The 1st sign I seen was he kept getting texts and calls from a 503 # I brushed it off thinking its job related then on one of his days off, me being pregnant had a craving for pizza … So he takes me to his job to get us a pizza and when we get there he sees who is working up front and tells me to stay in the car. || Red flags shot up right away, he never would have acted like that before he was always proud to have me around but now he didnít want me to come into his job? I watched thru the window and seen this girl get all smiley when he came in and I knew right then but I dint say anything. †idk if it was because I was trying to keep the peace at home or because I was confident that he wasnít going anywhere because many girls have tried before and never succeeded. || But then the texts and calls persisted, he started working late , and more often then came the arguments over the stupidest little things, he would get angry with me for no reason.† Must have been his guilty conscience eating at him. Then came the doctors apt where he had no choice but to admit he had cheated, while I was giving a urine sample to my doctor he asked my doctor to check me for stds. She said there was no reason to unless there was a concern and he told her he had contracted chlamydia and was scared he might have passed it to me, she told him he had to tell me because unless I asked for a test she couldnít test me.†† When I got back from the bathroom thatís when he told me I was pissed and of course the test came back positive for chlamydia which upset me more.† How could he be so irresponsible? Not using protection and then sleeping with me while Iím pregnant? Smh.† He cried and apologized and promised he wasnít going to mess with her again but they were coworkers so I still had to deal with him being around her and of course it wasnít long till he was messing with her again. || I would see texts from her saying she loved him, when was he going to leave me? Asking if he loved me still? etc.† Then he started locking his phone, sneaking into different rooms to talk and whisper, lying about his work schedule and money went missing, more arguments … I got woke up at 5 am to his phone vibrating nonstop seen the number roll across his screen of course it was the whore. †I was 8 months pregnant by this time and this is close to summertime and I was already miserable and having trouble sleeping and I get woke up to her blowing up his phone like she’s his woman!† She knew he had a pregnant girlfriend and 2 kids at home wtf was she thinking? He told me to just ignore it but I couldnít.† We ended up arguing that morning and he went to her so I took off to my momís with the kids. || He called me later on that day to reconcile but I was still upset so I told him I was going to stay at my momís for a little while to get away from the stress he was causing me and he said ok. †2 days later my landlord which was also my aunt through marriage told me our roommate who was Vietnamese had told her she seen my kids father bring 2 girls into our home the past 2 nights I had been gone. †That was my breaking point I had to see it for myself , that he would really disrespect our home by bringing not only the whore but another girl too into our house where our children live… || I had my mom watch the kids and I snuck back home while he was at work went into our bedroom and there was McDonalds trash left all over and an empty mcafe frappe cup thing and my kids father doesnít drink coffee so I knew someone else had been in my room. I cleaned the mess and went downstairs and left all the lights off so he wouldnít know I was home and waited and waited eventually I fell asleep.† He didnít come home after work like I thought he would. †I fell asleep on the couch … but woke up to a car door shutting at 3 am then heard him turn the keys and come inside.† †I tried to get up as fast as I could but being 8 mos pregnant and just waking up I wasnít prepared but sure enough he had 2 girls the whore and one of her jolly green giant friends with him.† He must have seen my silhouette because he quietly turned the light on seen me then turned the light back off and had them run to the car. As he ran behind them I ran or should say jogged/waddled to the front door as fast as I could and told them to come back but of course not. They took off. †I knew her number by heart by then and I called and texted her telling her to come see me at first she tried denying it was her that was in my house but she knows Iím not stupid. †By then I was so filled with anger I was ready to take on her and her friend. †I could not believe the audacity of them to come into my home and my bed? †She has no respect at all. || He finally came home at 6 am when he went into work I packed his shit and kicked him out.† He tried for a long time to get back with me claiming she was just a whore he was sorry.† He was on coke when he was with her and thatís why he kept doing it, excuses excuses.†† We stayed apart till about a week before I had our daughter I finally let him come home, he had dominoes put him at a different location so he didnít have to work with her and changed his number.† We were ok for a while till my daughter was about 6-8 weeks old but thatís another issue but I felt I needed to share my story because she clearly knew he had a pregnant girlfriend and 2 kids at home and she tried to get him to leave us for her.† Nice try hoe but didnít happen you were just a hoe thatís it. || We are not together now but only because I decided to leave him because I needed to show my daughter that it is not okay for men to cheat and she should never have to put up with that type of disrespect. We are still friends and he has changed and does a lot for our kids now but it has been almost 4 years since Iíve left him.

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