I got back together with my first love and everything was perfect. He stepped up to be a father to my 2 boys and we had so much fun together until he had to go to Florida for a weekend army training class. He met this 52yr old hag at the Pittsburgh airport and started talking to her, texting emailing and calling. At first I didnít know about it because his”work phone” had a password on it. Well one day I got into it and seen she said”I had a great time with you last night” and shit hit the fan. I confronted him and he said she was lying he was really out with his friends. Well I got her number before I said anything to him and called her the next day telling her to fuck off. Well she did and things went back to normal till mid-December when I saw he had another phone and was talking to her again! So yet again I get her number then confront him and he said they were only talking as friends so I call her and get a whole different story. I threaten her saying ill kick her ass if she pops up again. || Well we end up moving to Virginia for our”fresh start” then yet again she comes into the picture and at this time were married and trying for a baby. I dropped out of school and quit my job to move here so we could work on us. So he claims sheís crazy and obsessed with him and thatís why she wonít go away. Well I start blowing her shit up snapping out on her to the point where shed start crying. So I gave her my last warning if she didnít back off Iím going to make her regret ever meeting him and that’s exactly what Iím going to do. || I know itís his fault too and thatís why his ass sleeps on the couch and I show him no love what so ever till he proves sheís gone. Sad I have to do this to him but he needs to learn just because heís military he canít do whatever he wants and get away with it. I told him I see him talking to her again were getting divorced and Iím moving back home stopping at her house and beating the f**k out of her. So far it’s been quiet but letís see if it stays that way. Iíve been dealing with her for almost a year and its getting old. This whole situation has made my anger issues get worse. We tried couples counseling but all that did was make it worse. So were taking things one day at a time. Iíve made it very clear I donít trust him and itís going to take a while to gain that back. I love him but heís on his last chance. As for her she knows I want her and I told her I will get her.