Ok so I dont know the exact date Deja Stanley and my boyfriend started going behind my back. We had been together 6 years at this point with our first child. But keep in mind this was not only my best friend, but my boyfriend’s brother’s baby momma. || I started getting suspicious when they were texting a lot more than normal. Usually he would only text her to get a hold of his brother. I let it go for a couple weeks, but then they both started acting funny around me and his brother. || So I decided it was time to start snooping. I found text messages of him telling her he didn’t want me anymore he want her and how beautiful she was. And how he couldnt wait to see her again and if only I wasnt always around. When I asked him about it he said I was overreacting that he loved me and didn’t want to lose me or our sin over it, and that she was coming on to him. || So I went to her asking why she would do it to me how could she do it to me knowing how much we love each other. She pathetically apologized and said it would stop. A couple weeks went by and nothing changed so I kicked him out. Come to find out they had been f*cking. || And he was mortified so to speak spent the next 8 months trying to prove he wanted me back stupid me took him back for the sake of our son. It was about 6 months later I caught them in the act!! This time I told his brother and confronted her again. She told me I should have been taking care of his needs better. Funny cuz I paid all the bills I was working not him I had the vehicle. || And what’s worse is our sex life never changed we f*cked like everyday, so how could she say I wasn’t taking care of him? He finally told me she was just a piece of ass and he only did it to get free pot and xannax from her….. I was disgusted but told him if we cut ties with her dirty ass we could try and work it out. So here we are 3 years later together and unbelievably happy and sober! we own our home and are expecting our second child all while havin no contact with her. I heard shes doing bad tho went to jail and is living with her crackhead mom again and dealing drugs still in the same house as her child!!! Deja Stanley cant keep a man and im sure its cuz she hasn’t changed her ways but karmas a bitch isnt it??!!