My fiancé and I have been together since 2010. The entire relationship he has had this”best friend”, Renee Sloan. I was told on the onset that they had been best friends for 8 years and they had a sister/brother relationship. He said he was not attracted to her because she wasn’t his type, and that she was just in love with him. I was best friends with my fiancé’s cousin, and she told me that my fiancé had taken Renee’s virginity in 2003. That was before me so I am thinking hey why would he lie about that? I did not have a good feeling about this chick from the very beginning. They were always talking on the phone, she received mail at his apartment, they were always texting, she was friends with all of his friends, she had open communication with his mother, she was watching his son while he worked, and he was said to be the God father of her nephews. I have confronted her and him a few times throughout this relationship, and I even demanded that he establish appropriate boundaries. They both adamantly denied they ever had a relationship of any kind. || This chick was always in the way starting shit. Talking bad about me to his mother and believing she could confront me whenever she wanted to. This girl told me on one occasion it was a blessing they never slept together so they could be just friends. This girl told me on another occasion she liked girls. For the last three years she acted as if she was seeing this guy named, Rob in Atlanta. When I wanted to end my relationship with my fiancé she would then call me, tell me she has never seen him this happy, he would be devastated if we broke up, and we need to work on our relationship. She and I attended all of the same functions of course she as his friend and I was his woman. This girl even attended the same gym we attended as a family. This girl and I are in the same field and she has applied to my agency at least three times. In 2012, he and I moved in together. In 2015, we became engaged and bought a home. I discovered on December 29, 2015 (exactly two months before my wedding day) that my fiancé did take her virginity in 2003, and they have been having sex since then. Last admitted date was October 2015. My fiancé has a rotating shift and she is a residential life coordinator at a school where she resides. I have a traditional work day so these two were able to plan their affair during the weekdays when he was off. This chick is desperate and pathetic. My fiancé has had numerous relationships since they began having sex and she always remained a side chick. I read text messages where she was gloating about getting to have sex with him until February 29, 2016 (our wedding day). She even came up with a weight loss challenge to lose 20 lbs by our wedding date. I called her a home wrecker and everything else I could think of. She adamantly denied she was a home wrecker and stated I was the home wrecker because I was looking for shit. She is not the brightest chick in the world obviously. This girl was always in my space and could look me in my eyes knowing damn well we were sleeping with the same man with no shame. She is the worst kind of a home wrecker. Like I told her, she has been sleeping with my fiancé for over ten years, he only claimed he slept with her once to his cousin in 2003, and all of our mutual friends believed they were cousins. She was only good enough for him to sleep with behind closed door and she gladly accepted that role. She portrayed me as this crazy girlfriend that wanted to damage a friendship when throughout this entire relationship she knew my allegations and my instincts were correct.