My husband and I have been married since November 2010. We have a daughter who is 4 and a son who is now 19 months. Our son was born April 20th 2012…apparently days before a very disgusting relationship started between my husband and Devon. I found out after they had been”talking” for 6 months. I had seen a comment she left on a photo of my husband and son on Facebook and got pissed about it. She said”I would love to cuddle with him…and I don’t mean the baby.” It clearly stated that we were married on his as well as my Facebook, and she was friends with me on my Facebook. I went to school with her and was good friends with her sister. When I saw that comment I asked my husband what that was all about and he said he had no clue (liar!!). I told him he needed to tell her that is inappropriate because we are married and NO woman needs to cuddle or talk about cuddling with MY man. He said it was no big deal but not until I made it a big deal did he deleted it. I asked him several times if they ever had a”thing” for each other. He denied it and, like an idiot, I believed him and let it go. Months later…I found out the truth. It was our 2 year anniversary and my husband’s birthday. I had thrown him a surprise birthday only to be surprised myself when I decided to look in his phone. Something told me ‘you need to look in his phone.’ I thought, no it’s okay I am sure he wouldn’t be doing anything stupid, we are married and have 2 beautiful kids. Well it kept telling me to do it so I did. My gosh am I glad I did because it could still be going on now if I hadn’t. I saw some texts between them about his plans to come over to her house and her asking if I was home because she wanted to come over. All hell broke loose at that point. The rest of the night I spent time talking to her on Facebook and texting. Oh and get this! She is married and her husband was in prison for possible murder and she is STILL with him now. They’re having a baby now. GROSS! || Devon Vermillion: Nope thats it. And the pictures we sent weren’t that bad. They were just good pictures of us. || Me: So he didn’t said something he shouldn’t have and the only bad one you sent was of you in your bra and panties? || I don’t mean to pry… I just want the truth about everything laid out on the table. It should come from him but he won’t be honest…which I’m sure you know now. I canít live with the ‘wonder’… I really appreciate all you’ve told me. Itís nice to know you weren’t the bad guy but the victim. Not that I want you to be but… || Devon:Well those are anything I have saved from him at all. But yeah all i can say is that he started talking to me back in July. It started because of our kids and then he asked if I remembered one time back like 3 years ago that we were going to have a one-night stand but then I started dating my now ex-husband and it didn’t happen. Josh wanted pictures from me alot and tried to come over a few times but I didn’t feel right about it so would always back out but I honestly think if I would have let him come over he would have had sex with me and told me how he was leaving you. He is so trashy and you can do better. If you do forgive him you should try counseling together because something is making him fill a void by pretending he is going through hard times to try and cheat. Oh and that time 3 years ago I was dating (removed), (I dumped him for (removed)), and he knew it and he was going to fuck over his friend. I think he is too selfish to care who he hurts. || Me: I had no idea he had a thing for you ever…it makes me wonder who else he’s had a thing for that he still has on his fb. He told me he’s got something wrong but itís definitely no reason to cheat. May I ask what he said to you sexually? I know it may make you uncomfortable but…when put in this situation some women want to know and others don’t. I’m one that does. No matter how bad it hurts me. When did the sex talk start?…I know we were going through a rough patch in July but I had no idea it was this bad. And here over the past few weeks we were great!…so I thought. He was being so kind and loving. I thought we were back to the beginning of our relationship. Little did I know… || November 20, 2012 7:47 pm || Devon: Well he would just tell me things he liked in bed and how bad he wanted to do it. Maybe he is a sex addict. Does he watch a lot of porn, go to strip clubs and you catch him looking at damn near every chick that walks by cute or not? Thatís what my ex-husbandís problem was and he had to go to therapy and change his whole life to get control back. Addiction is when they don’t want to do it but almost have to. || I had no idea how deep the problem was either for a long time because he was embarrassed of it and afraid I would get mad so wouldn’t talk to me about it. Try being extremely open-minded even if you have to bite your tongue just getting it out can help him release it. || November 21, 2012 8:52 am || Me: He’s not a sex addict…just an ass hole who wants attention when he gets PLENTY at home. || November 21, 2012 4:00 pm || Me: Well thanks for all the info but you’re just as bad as he is. You knew damn well he was married when you text him. You knew we weren’t separated or divorced, that we were living under the same roof. So that makes you a home wrecker sweetheart. You’re no victim …just a slut looking for some dick. Next time look for it from a SINGLE man…not someone who’s married and has 2 kids. Don’t speak to my HUSBAND ever again. If you see him somewhere you better just walk the other way. Delete his phone number, email address, and pictures. You have no need for them. Go find someone else and leave my husband alone!