Elaine Hang – Grand Rapids, Michigan Michigan

I am from Grand Rapids, MI and I was with my ex for 3 1/2years. He decided to join the army in late 2014 and he we had sex a few times before he left town and his last week here he started acting funny. He wasn’t returning my calls and/or text messages in a timely manner. Before he went to the army he went to Jamaica for a few weeks (where he is originally from) to finish building his house. When he arrived in Jamaica he messaged me from Whatsapp to let me know he made it safe, told me he loved me and that his mom said hi. A few days after that one of my girlfriends called me and told me she saw him at one of my favorite restaurants with a girl. She walked up to him and he said “Oh hey, yeah you know my FRIEND Jaylin” (me) and the girl he was with told my friend he brought her there to strategize on how to “get her Asian homegirl.” I messaged him the next day from Whatsapp asking for an explanation, asking how he could do this time, who the ho was, etc (Since he did not ha

I am from Grand Rapids, MI and I was with my ex for 3 1/2years. He decided to join the army in late 2014 and he we had sex a few times before he left town and his last week here he started acting funny. He wasn’t returning my calls and/or text messages in a timely manner. Before he went to the army he went to Jamaica for a few weeks (where he is originally from) to finish building his house. When he arrived in Jamaica he messaged me from Whatsapp to let me know he made it safe, told me he loved me and that his mom said hi. A few days after that one of my girlfriends called me and told me she saw him at one of my favorite restaurants with a girl. She walked up to him and he said “Oh hey, yeah you know my FRIEND Jaylin” (me) and the girl he was with told my friend he brought her there to strategize on how to “get her Asian homegirl.” I messaged him the next day from Whatsapp asking for an explanation, asking how he could do this time, who the ho was, etc (Since he did not have regular phone service in Jamaica) and someone kept reading the messages and not responding……finally someone responded (I thought it was him initially) and said I was “just a piece of ass,” “to lose all contact with him,” and that there were too many bitches to keep track of…??”3 ˝ years and I’m a piece of ass….really? || Mind you, this was written in HORRIBLE, BROKEN ENGLISH! At that point, I knew that was a girl messaging me, not him as even in our biggest fights he would NEVER speak to me like that. Soon after that, I found out I was pregnant! I sent him an email with screenshots of the conversation since I knew her insecure ass obviously had access to the phone. Around the time I suspected he would be back in GR from his trip to Jamaica I tried calling and texting him with no response to let him know I was pregnant with his child. I was hurt! I purposely let a few months go by and I tried to find out who the Asian girl was but couldn’t find her. Then finally I suspected that if she was with him in Jamaica and met some of his friends and family, that she probably would try to add his friends or family on Facebook- bingo. I went through his brothers Facebook friends list and found a homely Asian woman (his brother lives in Jamaica and he has no reason adding some random ho from Grand Rapids) so I assumed it was her. Then she posted a profile pic of her and him (to piss me off) on WhatsApp and it confirmed the FB profile I found was indeed her. I went OFF!!! This fool allowed some ugly fat side ho disrespect me and is now flaunting this shit in my face?! I purposely waited until New Years Eve and blew his phone, FB, and WhatsApp up! He called me soon thereafter and I cussed him out! How dare he not contact me for months and allow some ho to disrespect me. He said he never received any of my emails, phone calls or text messages (he was on his way to the airport) and cussed out the ho right in front of me for deleting all of the messages. We talked for a few months during my pregnancy and he even talked to my mom to beg for forgiveness and to ask her if we could all be a family again. He said they went to Jamaica separately (so!) and she basically invited herself, paid for her own flight, etc. My mom told him it doesn’t matter as that didn’t give him an excuse to bounce up and down on another woman (I agree!) when me and him were together and that if he didn’t want to be with me he should have broken it off before he left town. He told me it wasn’t serious with her and that he didn’t know what he was thinking and that he was just “exploring.” He also said that because I had a new job second job, just graduated with my MBA, and bought a new home that he didn’t feel like he was enough for me and got scared and ran away with someone he felt he could control and who made less money than him?! After awhile I stopped speaking to him. I got tired of his BS and him trying to get back together with me and to be a family. Fast forward to May, the ho sends me an unsolicited email letting me know she’s pregnant and how I am old (I am one year older than her- what a dumb ho) and how nothing can break them apart. She attached a picture of an ultrasound to the email and I immediately went to Google and found it was someone else’s ultrasound…..DOUBLE SIDE EYE! Let’s just say someone’s mama got a text message sent to them letting them know what a whore their daughter is and how she is seeing a Jamaican guy with a pregnant girlfriend….I don’t play that shit! A few weeks after that in June he texted me to see if I was okay and then all of a sudden kept hinting that he wanted to get back together with me, blah blah blah and I wasn’t having it. We talked off and on and I told him about his son and sent photos. I asked him if they were still “together” -using that term loosely and he wouldn’t answer. We talked often multiple times throughout the day and I noticed he started acting funny around his birthday and started backtracking on some of those things he had been saying about wanting to get back together and be a family and so on. I assumed that ho was back in the picture AGAIN! Well, you know what they say- ratchet pu$$Y is better than no pu$$y to men with no morals, standards, or self respect. I later posted a photo with myself and another man on Whats App- I had it! The next day, he posted a photo of the two of them at Dunns River Falls- where we went together when we vacationed in Jamaica! I guess he couldn’t stand the thought of seeing me with another guy even though HE is the reason I am single! This past August I grew tired of the BS and the lies. I talked to him on the phone one night and told him I couldn’t believe he left me for a nail tech who can barely read, write, or speak English. He then purposely said “down here, she makes 10k a month (BS!) as a nail tech!” He purposely told me that to hurt me. So the ho has been living down there for a while now?! I told him how would his ho feel if I told on him and what he has been doing and saying to me the past few months- just like she did to him when they were in Jamaica. He told me to do what I had to do….. A few days after that, I texted him and told him I was done with his BS and that he knows what he had done and said to me to hurt me this past week and that I know my worth. 30 screenshots of all of the stuff that he has been saying to me for the past few months “Come ride me,” “I love u,” “You’re my queen,” “I should have made you my final destination,” got sent to her email address and to her moms email address! That night they both blew me up on text message taking the most shit, amongst other veiled threats. He told me he loved her (sure) and that he only said those things to “Comfort my desire,” and that “I was a sick girl,” –Sick….after all you have done to me and after I gave you a child and 3 ˝ years?! LOL. Mind you he was the one who reached back out to me in June out of the blue. Since I’m not there I don’t know who was texting what but it could have been her the whole time trying to make herself feel better. She tried to save face and say “she knows everything…” BS. She obviously was scraping feet and toe cheese while he was texting and calling me trying to get back with me. As if I owe her an explanation or owe have any loyalty or sympathy towards her. She also said not to click “Game over,”- I let her know that TX is only a plane ride away so keep fucking with me. I also told her that Karma was a bitch and how you got him is how you will lose him…..I suspect she has his phone in hand now while he is at the Army base in Fort Bliss (El Paso) during the day….What an insecure loser. Also, I looked online at the Texas State Department of Licensing and Regulatory Affairs and it looks as if miss Hang has been doing nails at salons illegally in TX- she is only licensed in the state of Michigan- guess who called the state of TX and told on her ratchet ass?! Psychological warfare at its finest. I am not the type of woman to solely blame another woman for what my mate did; however, “HangNail” inserted herself when she pretended to be him through WhatsApp in Jamaica and I told her he was with me and she didn’t care- that’s MY PROBLEM with her. I failed to mention she accused me of having a fake pregnancy?! #SIDEHOLOGIC Ladies, the moral of the story is- men will only allow what you let them. And as far as side hos goes, no man should have one or EVER let one disrespect you! You have to know you’re worth and when to be done!>

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