So my story starts with my fiancée at the time going to take a friend to one of his friends to pick up so girl and for him to buy a phone. Then I see his friend blowing up his Facebook with messages about bring Eliza Louise Hager back and you can stay the night. Mind you this is all happening after 1am and he should have came home but didn’t. Then he starting acting weird and I ask him about it and he says that it’s a different girl and that that girl couldn’t get in the car with him because she had warrants. So I do some looking and see Eliza has 3 warrant and is running from the cops. So I watch and see what he does and while I do this we go on family vacation and I see a message from her saying come over… || and hes like I dont know why she’s sending that I don’t know her. Then to fast forward he stopped coming home and I asked if he wanted to break up he said no he wasn’t doing anything wrong and I go looking for him after he didn’t show up to a bbq we were hosting. Along the way he pulls out in front of me with Eliza in the truck and I told him to pull over and they tried to run so I told him if he wanted to run that I was turning them in on their warrants which is what I did and they ran out of gas and I waited and watched for the cops to come and they both ran. || Mind you Eliza has a serious meth problem and I feel as though she got my ex in to it. The reason is my son and I were always his prized possessions and when I was waiting for the cops to show up he flipped out on me and said we were done. But while he was in jail he called begging to get out of jail so he could go to work. He was in jail for driving infractions so his fine was little so he got out and claimed she was just a friend nothing more. Then I see that he’s going to jail a few times a week to visit her and that he was talking to her a couple times a day. Mind you i told her to stay away from him or I would turn her in and she chose to continue to pursue him. So now my 4 year old doesn’t have a father because his dad is wrapped up in Eliza putting money on her books and won’t give a dime for his son. We were together for 8.5 years and he threw it away for a girl he admits has a drug problem and is a downgrade. Yet he still would rather stand by her than be a dad to his son. I even wrote her a letter telling her that he still tells me he loves me and misses me and my son and according to him she told him to f*** off and to tell me to f*** off. I just can’t see how someone would destroy a family for their own pleasure especially when they have a drug problem and know it’s not going to go well and even if she was to get clean temporarily why would she want a man with a family. I think in her and her family are blind to what is happening since they believe that maybe his lies.