My husband (Mike) and I had been married for 33 years when he decided he wasn’t happy. I told him the hardest part was over with and even though our marriage had many ups and downs, as most marriages do, I knew we weathered the worst of times and really thought we would go into our golden years with the wind at our backs. That is until he dropped the bombshell on me five days before Christmas that he wanted to move out. He has suffered from depression for many years and he used this as an excuse for leaving. Of course he denied having an affair over and over so I was willing to support him and give him the time I thought he needed to get his head on straight. What an idiot he made me out to be. I soon found out he was screwing a slut he worked with. || For a couple of years after that he played both of us. There were many times he spent the night with me and would deny it to her. He even asked me to take him back a few times but I wouldn’t do it until I was certain she was out of the picture. He said she was nothing but a party girl and didn’t have any intention of making him a priority. || I’m on SSI and I’m not receiving any money from him whatsoever, so it’s been quite difficult for me to make ends meet. Oh, he has agreed to pay off my car…. BIG DEAL! The amount of money I can receive will be counted against me dollar for dollar with SSI so my son stepped up to the plate and asked me to move in with him and his family so I don’t have to live on the streets or in my car. So I had to move out of state to survive. || Mike will not talk to me nor will he acknowledge any of my emails and has disconnected his phone so I have no contact with him personally. I can only get a message to him thru my lawyer. I don’t much care anymore how he treats me but he won’t have anything to do with my kids who he raised since my daughter was five and my son was three. He and my son were very close but now won’t even talk to him. He’s also turned his back on all six of his grandchildren, the oldest being 22 now and has cerebral palsy, whom he loved dearly. I’m sure a lot of this is because of his guilt but I’m also sure the slut plays a big part in his behavior as well. SHAME ON HIM!!! || Any woman who spreads her legs for a married man is a SLUT of the worse kind. I don’t care what sad story he’s laying on her she should tell him to get things straightened out at home and then if it doesn’t work out to leave and then see if they could have a life together. And I have to wonder what kind of woman could care for a man that threw away his family for a romp in the hay. I suppose she’s just as evil as he is. They’re both sluts and they deserve each other!