Elizabeth “Liz” Groves Houston, Texas Texas

Here is my story: My husband and I have been through just about every single hard time a couple can go through! Deployment, him being laid off for 6 months, transitioning from Army to Civilian Life, gaining custody of his two girls from a previous marriage (I did the work) and so on. I have stood by his side through every single bit of it, faithfully. He went to Iraq & our daughter was born 11 days later and when he came home for good (11 months later), there I stood, waiting for him to return BUT”he” never returned, just the shell of his body did. He had major anger issues, hyper vigilance, nightmares and uneasiness about just about everything on a daily basis. He began speaking to me like I was worth less than a dog and acting distant toward me around 5-6 months after returning home. I admit, I was a fool for putting up with it, regardless of the reasons, but I did because I love this man! That was February 2005. || Fast forward to August of 2012 now. I started to

Here is my story: My husband and I have been through just about every single hard time a couple can go through! Deployment, him being laid off for 6 months, transitioning from Army to Civilian Life, gaining custody of his two girls from a previous marriage (I did the work) and so on. I have stood by his side through every single bit of it, faithfully. He went to Iraq & our daughter was born 11 days later and when he came home for good (11 months later), there I stood, waiting for him to return BUT”he” never returned, just the shell of his body did. He had major anger issues, hyper vigilance, nightmares and uneasiness about just about everything on a daily basis. He began speaking to me like I was worth less than a dog and acting distant toward me around 5-6 months after returning home. I admit, I was a fool for putting up with it, regardless of the reasons, but I did because I love this man! That was February 2005. || Fast forward to August of 2012 now. I started to notice that he began caring more about his weight (he is a very average athletic built man, mind you…5’11 in tall, 198lbs), brushing his teeth way more often, taking a shower more often (usually not long after he came home from work and me not going with him to the store, etc. I noticed these things BUT it never even dawned on me that he would ever cheat on me, not one bit! Well, around Mid-September, he came home from work one day and for the remainder of the evening, did not say ONE SINGLE WORD to me. We went to bed that night with nothing said. I decided to grab his phone from his nightstand and look through his text messages. In them, I found texts to his mother & brother discussing marriage and whatnot. Well, his brother was going through a divorce at the time and my husband typed the words”whatever you do buddy, don’t EVER get married again…it fucks everything up & it’s just a piece of paper anyway”. He then went on to type to his mother that”he loves me but that he isn’t IN LOVE with me anymore”! I took it upon myself to go ahead and text to his phone so that he would find it on the phone in the morning. I asked him what was wrong? I asked him why he seemed so distant lately and why he hadn’t talked to me at all the night before? The next morning, around 6:30am, when he got to work, he began a text message conversation with me regarding his text messages with his brother & mother and also about us and our marriage. In this conversation, he stated that”even if either one of us changes the way we do things that it will just go back to the way it’s been”,”that it’s a little late now to change” &”that the luster is gone from our marriage”. I knew as soon as I saw the words”luster is gone” that a bitch was involved and those were HER words because most men, and DEFINITELY NOT my man, do not use such sophisticated words when speaking to their wives! I asked him point blank if he was cheating on me to which he replied”No”, of course. || He came home from work after texting with me literally ALL DAY (12 hours of work) and we had about a 4 hour conversation in our room. We got a lot out on the table so to speak and decided to begin working on our marriage, actively. Well, he didn’t do much to change but I did…a WHOLE LOT! Then, on Halloween Day 2012, I was sitting in my Explorer in front of my kids’ school waiting to get them when my stomach literally began to churn and hurt, bad. I felt dizzy and lightheaded and something told me”look at the phone bill NOW”. I tried to just ignore it by looking up music but my Iphone Apps kept failing to open over and over. I finally decided to go ahead and look at my AT&T app at our bill. I saw about 6 numbers that had made frequent calls to and from his phone, so I jotted them down and decided to call them, one by one. The first one went to Voicemail and it was a guy whose name I recognized from his work so I hung up. The second one, a female answered and I KNEW it was”her”. I immediately hung up and text messaged my husband asking”Who the fuck is (number removed)”??? At first, I got no reply right back so I asked again and told him”TELL ME NOW”! He called me right back and admitted that”she is a female from my work”. I asked him”why the fuck is she calling & texting you”? He lied and said”she texts or calls me about work orders that I have to turn in”. This was OBVIOUS bullshit and I knew it. I pushed further, SCREAMING at the top of my lungs, and he eventually told me that he talks to her about issues in HER marriage as well as OURS!! WTF is wrong with THAT picture? So, I told him that he had until I got our daughters from school to get the fuck home or that I would be at his work shortly. He said”I am leaving NOW” & I headed home. || My kids and I got home before he did which was odd seeing as though his work was a good 5-10 mins CLOSER than the dang school is. When he walked in the door, I was standing in our bedroom and demanded his phone from him, which he readily gave up. I then notified him that I was calling this bitch from HIS phone and that we were getting to the bottom of it! I had already called her back on my way home and asked her who the fuck she was and she denied even knowing him or who he was (yeah right, whore)! When I called her in our bedroom, she admitted to knowing him (the phone was on speaker so we could all hear each other) and that she was wrong for it”but that she hadn’t done anything else wrong with him”. I knew that was absolute bullshit and pushed further. Neither one of them would give it up BUT he did tell her that she was not to call or text or speak to him at work ever again. She agreed. The very next morning, he began texting me NONSTOP from work and asked me to come see him on lunch, that he was going to take an extended lunch. I asked him why, among many other things? He said”I just want to spend my lunchtime with you”, so I began to get ready to go. Our at the time 8 yr old daughter was home sick with me as well as our two year old son. As I was putting my son in the truck while on the phone with my husband, I came right out and asked him”Did you fuck her”?! He got real quiet and said”I may as well go home and get my shit and find somewhere else to live” to which I replied”Now why would that be your answer or what you would want to do”? He then said”because you are gonna get rid of me”. I asked him one more time if he had fucked her and he said”what do you think, Julie”? I said”No you motherfucker…I want to hear the words come from YOUR mouth”. He then began sobbing on the phone and said”Yes, I did and it was THE worst thing I have ever done”! I wish I could tell you what all I did at that exact moment but all I remember is buckling my son into his car seat, screaming”Why?” And walking back into my house and grabbing my .380 pistol. I went back to my truck, backed it out of our driveway and began the drive to his work…all the while sobbing, screaming, begging him to tell me it was all bullshit & telling him that he had ruined my life. || About halfway there, I was stopped at a red light and put down my pistol (which I had a FIRM grip on) and began to pray. I asked God to carry me right then because I could not carry myself on my own two legs/feet at that point. I asked Him to keep me from doing anything that I could one day regret in front of my babies. I then drove on to his work where he met me out front. I called my mom, who was at the hospital with her dying brother mind you, and asked her if she could come get our two kids? She agreed immediately because she could hear in my voice that it was grave circumstances and met us there. She took the kids home and he and I began the daunting task of speaking to one another. He took the rest of that day, the next day, the weekend and the following Monday off work and we left there in my truck. His truck was left in the parking lot during that time. We began driving around the area and talking (he was driving because I physically couldn’t). He was sobbing uncontrollably as was I and he asked me”what can I do to begin to unfuck this situation and right my wrongs”?!? I said”you can start by driving straight to my parents’ house and apologizing to them for what you have done to their only daughter” and HE DID just that. It was a horrible day but I am so thankful that I did not shoot and kill him which was my intention as I left my home that day! || During the following days and weeks, I began the grueling task of asking”those questions” about the affair. I found out that it all began around the first week of August 2012 and continue through the last week of September. They met at hotel rooms (one she paid for, the other he paid for), had sex in her car in the back seat in parking lots of closed down businesses, in his truck (that was also in MY name). I asked for EVERY GORY DETAIL and against his pleas not to tell me to further hurt me, he told me EVERYTHING. I went to her home on several occasions (Google is a fine tool) and confronted her about her role. She was terrified and threatened to call the cops which she eventually did after a few times lol! || Fast forward to February 27, 2013: he came home from his new job (he quit the other one shortly after D Day) and seemed upset. He asked me to pray with him before he”told me everything”! I did so but I will admit, I only half-heartedly did because I was fighting the urge to kill him for whatever it was that he was about to tell me! After he prayed out loud for God to hold me close and protect me from anything hurting me beyond repair, he informed me that since 2007 he had engaged in sexual acts with around 9 or 10 prostitutes, escorts & call girls at random motels in Fort Hood when we lived there, while we lived with my parents awaiting the closing on our new home in mid-July 2009 and since we have lived here! He had paid for both Blowjobs and Sex and had done so as late as DURING the affair! I began shaking and praying to God for help and strength! After about 10 mins of breathing deeply, I attacked him (brutally) and beat the shit out of him, all over our garage! I fractured his skull and also my shin bone while kicking him in his head, neck, back, stomach and face. I punched him repeatedly and then shoved his face into the concrete and told him to get down on his face where he belonged…worse than a dog in it’s own shit! I cannot say that I am necessarily “proud” of that BUT it did allow me the release of anger that I had pushed down for so many months. || The last communication I had with that skank was when we went to her home in December/early January to say some more of my piece and noticed she had put on A LOT of weight (like 50lbs or so!). I told him after we got home that he needed to call her and ask her if she was knocked up or not and that we needed a pregnancy test done ASAP to prove either way. He did so and she hung up on him, repeatedly. I told him that if she was, our marriage was OVER, period! We then drove to her house and demanded that she take one but she refused to answer her phone or door. Later that night, around 1:30am, I received a text from her telling me that No she was NOT pregnant and that she was fixed which is the same thing my husband had told me she said to him at the onset of the affair. I told her that she had TWO choices: 1. She could agree to meet me the very next day at a Planned Parenthood or store and take a test IN FRONT OF ME or 2. I would end her life. She agreed to meet me and did so the next morning at 11am. When I walked into the store (lookin Oh-So-Fine!!), she was standing by the restroom waiting. I then went and purchased a two pack of tests as I promised to do and followed her into the bathroom. She peed on the test and then handed it to me and it was NEGATIVE! I have not had any contact with her since. || I recently wrote up the list of history between she and my husband and intend to type it all out tomorrow to send to HER husband because I feel that he is owed THE TRUTH about his”wife”. I will be sending it Certified Mail, Restricted Delivery to her husband to ensure that it is HE that opens it! Inside, I am leaving my name and phone number for him to contact me if he wishes and needs any MORE details. This cunt is STILL screwing around on this poor guy AND was screwing MULTIPLE other men at the same time she was having an affair with MY husband. Hell will NOT be hot ENOUGH for this wretched Guttersnipe. The Bible speaks of an adulteress that”eats her food, wipes her mouth and says I’ve done no wrong” and that fits this whore perfectly! It also speaks of the Adulteress in the following ways: || 3 For the lips of an adulteress drip honey, and her speech is smoother than oil; 4 but in the end she is bitter as gall, sharp as a double-edged sword. 5 Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. 6 She gives no thought to the way of life; her paths are crooked, but she knows it not. 7 Now then, my sons, listen to me; do not turn aside from what I say. 8 Keep to a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house, 9 lest you give your best strength to others and your years to one who is cruel, 10 lest strangers feast on your wealth and your toil enrich another man’s house. 11 At the end of your life you will groan, when your flesh and body are spent. 12 You will say,”How I hated discipline! How my heart spurned correction! 13 I would not obey my teachers or listen to my instructors. 14 I have come to the brink of utter ruin in the midst of the whole assembly.” 15 Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well. 16 Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares? 17 Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers. 18 May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. 19 A loving doe, a graceful deer– may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her love. 20 Why be captivated, my son, by an adulteress? Why embrace the bosom of another man’s wife? 21 For a man’s ways are in full view of the LORD, and he examines all his paths. 22 The evil deeds of a wicked man ensnare him; the cords of his sin hold him fast. || For all of you beautiful, faithful and lovely ladies out there that have husbands that may have already strayed or you believe might in the future, PLEASE read him these Scriptures LOUD AND CLEAR and remind him that he broke a Covenant between not ONLY you and him BUT also between himself and GOD! || || >

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