My husband and I were separated due to his constant cheating with various fast food, gas station employees and friends we shared. He convinced me everything was over with and we were to be living back under same roof over Thanksgiving of 2013. She knew about me, I didn’t know about her. He told me he loved me more than life itself and our family was all he wanted. Well 5 days before the move back in together was to take place, I was told by our daughter that he had taken a woman with him to a church function while I was working. She wasn’t the only one he took to church functions while I worked, there was 4 others over the years. || Well Liz you didn’t win him because he chose to leave a faithful wife, this faithful wife kicked him to the curb and you got him by default. You came into his life thru a trashy dating site, well you are not the only one he is seeing. You see I don’t care who he is with or what he does on those sites, he has even sent money to a woman in Africa to fly her here to live with him, it was a scam lol. After leaving South Whitley, Indiana and moving my daughter to another town-I found out about the abuse she went thru from that family, I have cps files to back this up. I have full sole custody of our daughter and he is only permitted 4 hrs every other week. Go ahead and believe his lies, but think about it, why would a judge take away shared joint custody and give one parent full custody??? || She works for a Govt office in Huntington Indiana and loves attention from married men and he works for a company in Warsaw, Indiana with freedom to roam all over while getting paid for it. He cheated on me with you, and he is cheating on you. He cheated on his 1st ex-wife. Welcome to stds, I know 1st hand from surgery to remove cancer caused by hpv. Maybe he got it treated before starting up with you, maybe he didn’t. I donít know and I don’t care. They can have each other because while he was having sex with me telling me he loved me and our family was his priority, he was cheating having sex with you. It doesnít matter what he was telling you, I was his wife, the one he took vows with before God and family to love honor and protect. †He’s not capable of keeping those vows, he’s not capable of being with one person without cheating but a few years. His child support is being withheld from his checks now because he chose not to pay his support and take a trip to Myrtle Beach and other stuff with you. How can you choose a man who was married, had a family, that he would rather spend money on you than pay his support for his daughter!!!! Think about it. A judge takes joint custody and changes it to full legal custody to one parent only for certain reasons and proof of it!!!! Divorce was final Aug 2014, his Valentine gift to her was filing for divorce on Valentine’s Day 2014.