This woman was roommates with my husband when we first met. She had always had a thing for him, but never acted on it. My husband and I met he moved in with me, we got married and had a kid. This person was our friend. Of course over the years we lost contact with her. My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years. I don’t remember if it was us that found her or her that found us on facebook, but she got added to his facebook page. They started talking as friends. You have to understand that my husband has really low self-esteem. He has never felt like he deserved me. He has always felt like he wasn’t good enough for anyone. I am not a jealous person so I had no problem with him and her being friends.We had been having a rough time. I have PCOS so my hormones were all over the place. I was moody, not interested in sex and just depressed. He was having issues with that thinking I didn’t want him and then issues with his family. So he was talking to her about those problems, because she was always a good friend. She started talking to him about divorce and why they never dated when they lived together. How if he wouldn’t have met me and moved out they probably would have dated. How attracted she has always been to him and how much she thinks of him. What a great man he is. This emotional affair went on for 4 months. They met a few times when my husband was getting off work. He would be with her when would call and she would sit there quietly. They would meet in a private spot off a road in Mt. Pleasant. They also met once in a house she was house sitting and a house she was cleaning (she cleans houses). They both say there was no sex. It was more emotional. There was making out. They talked about sexual fantasies. She sent him sexy pictures of herself. She talked about them getting a house together and taking care of my kids. (Did I mention she told my husband in the beginning that she was going to have a baby in 2 years with or without having a man.) Joked with him about him being her baby daddy. She basically wanted my life. || I found out about the affair at the end of July. I confronted him. We talked about it and talked about it. I read messages and conversations between them. I made him go over every single detail with me over and over again. I sent her message and she didn’t respond at first until I blasted her out on a public profile. She sent me a long letter apologizing. Trying to explain her side of things. She said that she was under the impression that he was going to leave me not because he didn’t love me, but because he thought I didn’t love him and I wasn’t happy. After reading her letter and all the other messages and conversations, it was perfectly clear that she was using my husbands weakness to get to him. || It has been almost 2 years since this happened. My husband and I have worked through things. He spent a lot of time answering questions and telling me where he was and where he was going and sending me pictures with time stamp to prove it. But we are better, we are on track, and believe it or not we are stronger.