My husband went to the hospital for severe stomach pains. They kept him for a few nights. One night I logged onto Facebook and his account was on and still open. I saw he had messages so I thought I would read them and let him know if any were important. To my shock/surprise he had several from a woman named Gloria Koch. I called him at the hospital and questioned him; he said”she’s just a friend from work”. I said”oh, do you sleep with ALL your female friends from work”? || I discovered this less than a week before Christmas and we had 4 kids under the age of 6. I contacted her and have been told that I made her cry at work. Her excuse was that it had been done to her. I was with my husband for 12 years and married for 8 of them. It has been almost 4yrs. and I still can’t believe it happened. I still have so many unanswered questions. Even after he came home from the hospital, behind my back, he was still talking to her on Facebook, texting her; he even met with her at a bar. One of the reasons she gave me for him doing this was because we had become foster parents and he didn’t want all the extra kids. Why can’t men talk to their wives significant others instead of some trashy broad?