Heather Jean Huber (Hayes) Fort Hood, Texas Richland Missouri Missouri

We would have been married 9 years this year in May 2013. After going through hell and back, I thought my ex-husband and I had endured it all and we were in it for the long haul at this point, or so I thought. I thought life was perfect. We had 2 beautiful kids at that time and I was pregnant with our 3rd child, that HE begged me for. We planned  our baby. He said everything would be ok. He was SO excited when I told him I was expecting our last baby. I had never seen him so excited with any pregnancy like he was with this one. That made me very happy and, of course, made me fall even more in love with him. He said we were going be married forever and we were “never going to divorce”, I believed him. I was a stay-at-home military wife. I didn’t work to save money on daycare. I was always home, never went anywhere. I was always there for him. Like I said, I thought life was finally on track for us. We had so many dreams and plans that we wanted to achieve for our kids and

We would have been married 9 years this year in May 2013. After going through hell and back, I thought my ex-husband and I had endured it all and we were in it for the long haul at this point, or so I thought. I thought life was perfect. We had 2 beautiful kids at that time and I was pregnant with our 3rd child, that HE begged me for. We planned  our baby. He said everything would be ok. He was SO excited when I told him I was expecting our last baby. I had never seen him so excited with any pregnancy like he was with this one. That made me very happy and, of course, made me fall even more in love with him. He said we were going be married forever and we were “never going to divorce”, I believed him. I was a stay-at-home military wife. I didn’t work to save money on daycare. I was always home, never went anywhere. I was always there for him. Like I said, I thought life was finally on track for us. We had so many dreams and plans that we wanted to achieve for our kids and for us when retirement came around. It was only a matter of time for everything to fall into place. || It was the day before Mother’s day in 2012 and 5 days before our 8th anniversary, I was 7 months pregnant when I found out about”Heather”. The day I found out, it was a normal day. He said he was going to his office to check on something. What would have been a quick 30 minute trip turned into a 3-4 hour adventure. My husband was never the type to leave the house for long periods of time so after 2 hours I started to call and text him. There was no response. Finally, he called and said he was chillin’ with some of his”boys” and they were gonna go paint balling. I said,”Great! The kids and I can come watch!” He said that was ok but that he would let me know the plans after they decided what to do. After about 10 minutes, he called back to say they weren’t going after all because the course was closed. It seemed odd to me because he loved to go shooting. At that point, something was telling me to check our cell phone bill. I never had done that before but I did. To my surprise, there it was, I came across pages and pages of nothing but one number. I decided to block my number and call it. She answered. I hung up. I called again but this time she let it go to voice mail and that’s when I found out her name was”Heather”. He walked in the house like nothing had gone wrong. He sat down and he continued to say he was with his friends. Liar! So I decided to ask who was Heather?! Funny that he had gotten texts around the time he left, didn’t receive any while he was gone, and then received some on his way home all from the same number. He said Heather was”Huber”, one of his soldiers. The”crazy redneck chic who is psycho and is married to some dude that’s a momma’s boy” was what his response was. A few minutes after I confronted him, he told me straight up, he was done and wanted a divorce!!! That he was unhappy and had been for years before!!! This hit me hard. It blindsided me out of nowhere. I thought we were happy and things were great! He confessed he had been with her that evening parked at the mall parking lot”just talking”. Yeah, sure buddy! He told me he had just found out she liked him and that it felt good knowing a young woman would be interested in him. He was 32 and she was 23. || After he told me he wanted a divorce, I went to my room thinking maybe if I forget about it things would fall back to normal. The next day, I woke up still hurt and angry at him about what he had told me the day prior. I noticed he was still, what I thought, texting. I decided to check his face book (I had his password) and saw he was messaging HER!!! He told her to message him through facebook instead, so I wouldn’t see it on the phone records. They went on to talking about neither of them having regrets about anything that had happened. She asked if he wanted her to stop talking to him, he answered”no”. She also asked,”Are you gonna come see me today?” His response again, was no. I took screen shots of the conversation. I confronted him about it again and immediately notified his 1st SGT. (They both are soldiers in the Army. She happened to be one of his soldiers under him.) I called staff duty and left a message, ironically, she, Heather, was working at the desk that day. They notified the 1st sgt and she contacted me back within an hour. Before I had the chance to tell her, she told me she knew what was going on and that she knew Huber was the problem. She promised things would be settled at work the following day and that they would place a no contact order on my husband and Huber (Heather). She also stated that she had ordered for Heather’s personal cell phone to be confiscated until the following day. My husband was furious with me but I refused to be the cheated on! Our anniversary day came around and it was just another day. At this point I was in deep depression. I had lost 10 lbs. I couldn’t keep food down and couldn’t even think about eating without wanting to vomit everything. I was considered a high-risk pregnancy because I had Chronic Hypertension and Gestational diabetes. || That night, I waited for him to fall asleep. I took his phone and decided to call her with his phone because she was ignoring my calls. She answered. I told her who I was and I wanted answers. She told me they were in love and that he wanted to leave me but was waiting until after our son was born. She swore they hadn’t done anything sexual yet but I had my doubts. He and I weren’t being intimate at that point so I wouldn’t have doubted if they did. This went on for 3 months. During those 3 months, he put me down and told me to leave “his” house, which I did a few times. I slept over at a friend’s house and once in my car. It was horrible. || The weekend before my son was born I slept over at a friend’s house. I came home on a Monday and my water broke at midnight. Still, I allowed him to be at the birth of our son, because it was his last child, so I thought. I even let him name him. He told me if I changed his name we would divorce. At the time, I was willing to work things out so I didn’t change his name. When my son was born it was as if I had a stranger in the room with me. No hug, kiss, or simple “I love you”. || Long story short, he left our home in September of 2012. He claimed to be staying with his mom, and the ratchet woman covered for his lying ass. Little did I know, he was living with Heather, she told me in a text just recently (they both blocked me on Facebook). After months of begging him to work things out, I filed for the divorce in November. I found out she was pregnant in December but he denied it was his. Our divorce was finalized in January 2013. They got married on February 28th, 2013. She is due to have their baby In June, three weeks before OUR last baby’s 1st birthday, the baby he wanted. They were both demoted in the Army. She is now living in the home that he and I picked together with the help of our children. Just to be a douche, he sent me pictures of how SHE has decided to paint our old bathroom and my daughter’s old bedroom. He doesn’t see our kids. He wants nothing to do with our baby, the one HE wanted and begged me for. She sent me a text saying she supported her husband in his decision to not see his kids because it was “best for the kids”. This “woman” is a selfish, immoral, slutty, low self-esteem, no self-respect with daddy issues home-wrecker. He has sent me numerous of texts saying he wants to give up his custodial rights to our kids. It breaks my heart for my kids because they do miss their daddy and they didn’t ask for any of this. Since January, he has seen our oldest 2 kids once and he last saw our baby on Christmas morning. I send him pictures of him and it’s like he never gets them because he never responds. My 3 kids are my life. They’re my reason to keep going. I have started school to better myself for them. I don’t know where my life would be without them. || He blames me for ruining his life but he doesn’t understand that he (and her) also killed a part of me forever. This man has put me down to feel like the lowest POS. Regardless, I loved him with my life. What cracks me up now is how much he hates me now as if I cheated on him and made him go through the hell I went through. I never knew how much a heart break felt. It is literally like a stab in the chest. It hurts, bad! Karma is a bitch and I cannot wait until it catches up to them, which she says never will because he was “separated”. In the state of Texas, there is no separation so technically, this hoe got pregnant while we were still married. They’re both so damn stupid to understand that. I cannot wait to see her cheat on him so he can feel exactly how I felt!!! || >

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