The hardest thing in the world is to be cheated on, the worst part is with a family friend. Out of curiosity and strange behavior from my husband I decided to check the phone log. I usually don’t because I trusted him. So during my look I come across a phone number that came up multiple times, from the time he wakes up until the time he gets off work. I dont say anything for a while and check again thinking that the number is work related. So of course when I check this time I come across a 47 minute conversation with this same number. I confronted him about it and of course he denied it being someone important, just conversation. Of course he would not give me the persons name. So I took matters in my own hands and called the number back, no answer at first, then finally when I get an answer they disguise their voice. so Im like okay, ill try again later. I tried again later and she said something. || At this point I figured it was a girl. Once I confronted my husband he finally admitted that it was a girl and they was just talking. Then one day I get a phone call from an anonymous caller, telling me of the relationship and who it was. I felt embarrassed and betrayed to find out that it was her. A little history on Montes (she works at (removed) as an officer) she has been a friend of the family since me and my husband got together in 07, Our daughter was born in 08 and she came to the babyshower as an invited guest, when we got married she was invited to the celebration dinner, and she has been in my house , to sum it up we were cordial friends, not besties but enough that screwing with my husband would be violating. So I decided to write her on messenger to confront her and I also called her, but of course she didn’t respond knowing that it was grimy. I attempted to call her at work but of course she had them screen her calls. All he kept doing was denying the whole thing, saying that he would never mess with something like that but that they were guilty of talking. || I left and relocated and he ended up with her. Either one of them feel remorseful that she was the reason that my daughters will never have their father in the same household as them. And then she has the nerve to send me a message on instagram indirectly. one of the images. She feels like she doesn’t owe me anything. I feel like I’m owed an apology out of respect. I wrote her privately as a woman but as a girl she felt like she wanted to be funny. She thinks that the situation is cute so she needs to be exposed so that other woman in that area who work at the prison need to watch her. Im a true believer of Karma and I will have the last laugh. Unfortunately, I have trust issues with everyone and I will never be able to love again. If she would have called me to apologize I would let it be, but the fact that its funny to her, with no remorse is what bothers me the most. On top of all of that, she’s slept with half the men on the compound.