My husband and I have been married for 14 years and we have 2 daughters ages 13 and 9. We have had a wonderful relationship throughout our years of marriage. Aside from normal ups and downs in our marriage such as a few money struggles and a death of a parent everything was great. In June he asked me if I minded if he went out to a movie alone one night. I said of coarse but thought it was a little strange. That night I checked Facebook and noticed Jacki Boyle had commented on his check in at the movie. I have never heard him speak of her nor have I ever seen her comment on anything. When I clicked on her profile I noticed she was someone he worked with. He had always come home each night and told me stories of the people he worked with and her name was never one I’ve heard of. When he got home that night I asked him about her and he said it was just someone from work. I didn’t really question it too much more until July. || His behaviors began to change drastically. He stopped calling on his breaks, calling in between shifts, started coming home late. My husband is not a big drinker but he began to drink every night when he would get home from work then stay up on the computer for hours at a time. He would find a ton of excuses to leave the house and his errands would take a lot longer than they should. After noticing more and more interaction between them on Facebook I decided to drive up to his job and I caught them talking in the parking lot. He stopped including me in photos, tags, or check ins on Facebook, I’m guessing so she didn’t see us living our life or being happy together. I also started to notice they were using codes to meet up through Facebook. After driving myself crazy I started going through his stuff and found he had purchased a Track Phone as well. I found gifts she had given to him. As I became more vocal about my suspicions she began posting things on her Facebook encouraging him to leave and confessing her feelings but without using his name. The night before he left us she posted the Facebook posts below. || Since he left the past 2 and a half weeks has been the worst in my life. I had done so much research I was able to find where she lived and caught him sleeping at her house most nights since he has left. Yesterday I was finally able to get him to admit to the affair and they are going to continue seeing each other. So he left his house, kids, and wife for her. I’m still in shock and this girl needs to be exposed for messing up my happy life and for being a part of taking away the man I am deeply in love with.