Where do I begin? I met James Matthew Pointer aka Jimmy Pointer on a dating site. He lives in WestPoint, MS. He was a great talker. He was everything I thought I wanted, we dated for 3 months and then he was in a bad situation. I allowed him to move in my home. Six months later I was pregnant and he was a full blown alcoholic. I came home at six weeks pregnant to find that he pawned my dead mother’s wedding ring and bought beer, drove my car drunk. I was allowing him to use my car to get his GED. I told him no more drinking. He stayed sober for a little while. Our beautiful daughter was born and I noticed my pain pills disappearing. I questioned him and he said he only took a few. I then started counting them. I worked a full time job and he stayed at home and didn’t work. He finally got a job when our daughter was 6 months old. He would give me $100 for daycare as I paid for everything else. || He had money from his job and started drinking again. He came home drunk and passed out. I went through his phone to find many Craigslist ads and text messages saying he was into gang banging and wouldn’t mind a man sucking his privates, and a woman that he was talking to about how much he enjoyed f!#$&ing her. He was sending naked pictures and having naked pictures sent to him. Hope Weedon from West Point and was engaged to someone was one of the many. He then had Becky Turner from West Point pick him up to take him back to West Point, because he is 41 years old with no job, no car, nothing, 5 kids by 4 different women. || Well the first night there he got caught in bed with Becky and she’s his friend’s wife. Now I find out that he was messing with a married woman named Sharon Hays from Starkville also known as Shay Hays. She was with him while he was married to his second wife and they were talking to each other through our 4 year relationship. She does photography on the side and husband’s too. She is now getting a divorce and paying his court fines and taking care of him, because he only worked 9 months in our 4 year relationship and was fired for drug use. I was there for him when he went to a 90 day rehab. He got out and started cheating three weeks later and started drinking once again. I have messages where he offered prostitutes money. I’m so happy that two cheaters have found each other and I will no longer have to look at him. I’m meeting with my attorney to get full custody and a name change for my daughter. I don’t have pictures of the other women due to being blocked on Facebook after I found out about them. I guess when you are guilty you hide and block yourself. Run like hell ladies and if you decide to roll in the sheets make sure he wraps it up because he is very fertile and doesn’t take care of any of his children.