My story is like so many others on here. I have been married to my husband for 14 ˝ years, we have four children and one on the way. In early November of 2013 I realized that my husband was friend with woman on Facebook that none of his family or friends are friends with. So I started doing a little digging and realized that they became friends when two of our children where in the hospital having surgeries for different things. I then saw the only pictures she liked were the ones he had posted of himself, our houses, vehicles, or vacations pictures of places we went. Yet the pictures of the family she never liked or commented on. So I inboxed her on Facebook to ask her how she knew Pekas (my husband’s nickname) and she responded “excuse me do I know you” and told her “you should I am his wife of 14 years and mother of his four children and the pregnant with our fifth” She then replied that they were just friends. So I confronted my husband about it and asked him who she was and how he knew her, that is when he got defensive and said I was crazy to think he would do anything to lose his family.So I left it at that, and believed him when he said he loved me and that she was just a friend. Well on November 15th 2013, the dumbass got caught with her at a restaurant by my friend. She called and picked me up so I could see with my own eyes what was going on. So we went back to the restaurant where she seen them but they left , so we went to another restaurant and there sat my husband, the love of my life at the bar with a look of shock on his face. Her and her friend were in the bathroom and I went in there to confront her. She still swearing that they were just friends. Friends my ass! He left with me back to our house. We argued for the next few days until it became violent on November 18 (his birthday) he got a message on his phone and I went to grab it he tried to snatch it out of my hands and I would not let go so he bite me. Yes bite me, his pregnant wife like he was our two-year old daughter. With that I left the house and went to my doctor’s appointment for my pregnancy. My doctor saw the bite marks and told me to go to emergency to have it looked at because human can be very dirty. So I did and the ER told me I should make a police report which I did. I pressed charges against him and was told if he came back to the house to call the police to pick him up because at this point I did not know what else he was capable of. When he did come back he started yelling at me so I walked into the bathroom and called the cops. They came and got him!I felt bad that I put him in jail but he deserved it. A few days later he called me saying he wanted a divorce and that he wanted to sell the houses we had and he was moving back to Mexico. Than a few hours later he called me telling me he was sorry and that it was a mistake and that he wanted to talk with me. I agreed to meet him at our house that is being renovated so we could talk without the kids around. He first tried to tell me a man can love two women at the same time, which I told him the reason he got caught is because the whole time he was messing around with her I was the “mistake” “I ruined his life” he did not love me and so on. I asked him where they met and he told me at her work which is a restaurant/bar/club in Southwest Detroit in Mexican Town, she was his waitress when him and his brother-in-law and a few friends went out. He went on to tell me it should not bother me as long as I had the house and the cars and the family. I found out that he took him on the road with him (he is a truck driver). This whore left her two kids to run off with a man she only knew for a hot minute for a week. I never knew because the whole time he still called me and the kids. What makes things worse I am his dispatcher and he was yelling at me in front of her. Once I found this out I calmly looked at him and told him I will always love you but I cannot live like this and walked away.A few days later we were invited to his sister house who knew what was going on and wanted us to go to a group for married couples that helped couples fix their marriages and heal the relationship. This couple came and talked to us about what they went through and how his affair broke his wife and how with the help of this group they had fixed their marriage and got a second chance to start a fresh. He sat and listen but did not say anything at first. He asked them a few questions and, then he had to leave. I stayed behind to find out more information. When I left I was sure that he was out with her, but to my surprise he was at our house waiting for me. I let him sleep on the couch and the next day we went to the other house to talk, that is when he said he was through with her and that she was the mistake and he loved me and our kids. I have no way to find out if it is really over or not but all I know is ever since I put his dumbass in jail he has not been in Detroit for nothing and he lets me know where he is every second of the day or he takes our son with him everywhere he goes.I still don’t trust him, but I do love him and I am trying my hardest to forgive him. I do not know what the future holds for us if he agrees to get help maybe we can work it out. But I know one thing if I ever catch that whore near my husband again I will beat her ass so bad . She knew he was married and did not care. I found out that she is separated from her husband and I really hopes he finds this posting so that he can take his kids away from her homewrecking ass because any woman who leaves her kids for a week to be with a man that she barely knows does not deserve to have them.Janethe “Jenni” Gudino if you ever come near my husband again or even contact him I will call immigration on your ass and CPS. I know a lot more than you think you crazy illegal bitch.